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Hey guys,

I have a road trip scheduled with a friend. This friend is my gym buddy. Coming from a small town, there's not much options when it goes about buying stuff, such as gym supplements, etc. So we decided to go to a city 300 km from here to do some shopping, and to workout in different gyms.

I did jokes with him about the fact that the hotel room only have one bed (it also have a murphy bed). What he answered left me questionning myself about him.

He said that he loves to cuddle anyway and that he dosen't mind been in the same bed....also he made jokes that we will be looked at like a gay couple. I don't know what to think about his jokes, even if they are really jokes. That guy when we started training together a few weeks ago (We known each others for a while), asked what was my take on been naked with other guys in the locker rooms.

So...what should I think about all this.
 

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Hey guys,

I have a road trip scheduled with a friend. This friend is my gym buddy. Coming from a small town, there's not much options when it goes about buying stuff, such as gym supplements, etc. So we decided to go to a city 300 km from here to do some shopping, and to workout in different gyms.

I did jokes with him about the fact that the hotel room only have one bed (it also have a murphy bed). What he answered left me questionning myself about him.

He said that he loves to cuddle anyway and that he dosen't mind been in the same bed....also he made jokes that we will be looked at like a gay couple. I don't know what to think about his jokes, even if they are really jokes. That guy when we started training together a few weeks ago (We known each others for a while), asked what was my take on been naked with other guys in the locker rooms.

So...what should I think about all this.
You don't have to think anyway about any of this.

You moved first with your probably not that witty comment on the sleeping arrangements. Your friend thinking you were attempting a lame joke, had the manners to respond with a joke of his own that was at least a little edgier and ballsy next to your played “oh no there's only one bed!” faux problem.


So...let me see if I'm understanding you: you started this little game of God only knows what to call it, then you don't know what to think about “all this” when he didn't bust your balls over your lame clichèd attempt at testing the homo waters, and you even have the balls to say his responses left you questioning him?

And “ what should” you “ think about all this?”

That you even ask this tells me you are interested in this boy sexually. So let's drop the pretenses. For the love of God, be a friend. Talk to him. Be open and honest. If you want to play around with him on this trip, tell him. Ask him if he would also like to play around with you. He says yes, then you two go to town on each other.

He says no, then don't get butt hurt. Save a little face with a line like “cool dude, want to go running or lift some weights instead?

It's simple. If you maintain you might not be interested in this guy in that way, then what's the issue? Who cares what he meant when he said things about cuddling or being mistaken as a gay couple?

Just stop overanalyzing everything and have fun. Be a friend.
 

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Hey guys,

I have a road trip scheduled with a friend. This friend is my gym buddy. Coming from a small town, there's not much options when it goes about buying stuff, such as gym supplements, etc. So we decided to go to a city 300 km from here to do some shopping, and to workout in different gyms.

I did jokes with him about the fact that the hotel room only have one bed (it also have a murphy bed). What he answered left me questionning myself about him.

He said that he loves to cuddle anyway and that he dosen't mind been in the same bed....also he made jokes that we will be looked at like a gay couple. I don't know what to think about his jokes, even if they are really jokes. That guy when we started training together a few weeks ago (We known each others for a while), asked what was my take on been naked with other guys in the locker rooms.

So...what should I think about all this.
Idk, none of his comments seem particularly unusual to me or hinting in any direction.
 
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If it were me….. being that I’m interested in “cuddling” with another man…. I’d just go with it and see where it leads. I’m not even hinting at opening that Murphy bed. I make it clear I plan on sharing the one bed, platonically….. and hope it goes from there…. If it doesn’t. It doesn’t. If he asks you to sleep elsewhere. Sleep elsewhere.
Me….. I’m hoping he cuddles. Sex or not.
 
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I think, @IanBlake and @18wheeler are both kinda right. If you are ready to do the experiment, go with the flow.
Its unclear if you are the 100% straighty here, but I agree that it sounds as if you would like to play a bit and you finally found someone who would go the next step with you. It seems you are straight-frightened and caught in between "you don't do such thing" and "a guy who wants to cuddle I would love to know how that is".
Have a try on enjoying the ride and when laying in bed together dressed or not, just see what cuddling means and if it means sexual moves, just give it a shot and see how far you'd go.
 

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Here's what you do: At night when yall are going to bed make sure just a LITTLE light can get in through the hotel room curtains. Then when the lights go out, start jacking...make sure you start off slow, but make sure he can see some movement. If he turns away, stop. Watch him for a response. If you see him start touching himself, there's your answer. I would move to letting him see me naked next, and see how it escalates from there.
 

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For family events, many times, I have driven from New York to Washington DC and back in the same day . That is 250 Miles or 400 KM each way. With 2 drivers, why is there a need for a hotel ?
 
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For family events, many times, I have driven from New York to Washington DC and back in the same day . That is 250 Miles or 400 KM each way. With 2 drivers, why is there a need for a hotel ?
NYer and I'm with you 100%. They're from a city of 58,000 people. This is a trip to purchase supplies that they can't get in the wilderness.

I'm half joking. But two guys are going out to purchase shit and check out other gyms and they're turning it into a road trip. That's great. It's living life when Amazon could have sufficed and been lame as hell.
 

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Hey guys,

I have a road trip scheduled with a friend. This friend is my gym buddy. Coming from a small town, there's not much options when it goes about buying stuff, such as gym supplements, etc. So we decided to go to a city 300 km from here to do some shopping, and to workout in different gyms.

I did jokes with him about the fact that the hotel room only have one bed (it also have a murphy bed). What he answered left me questionning myself about him.

He said that he loves to cuddle anyway and that he dosen't mind been in the same bed....also he made jokes that we will be looked at like a gay couple. I don't know what to think about his jokes, even if they are really jokes. That guy when we started training together a few weeks ago (We known each others for a while), asked what was my take on been naked with other guys in the locker rooms.

So...what should I think about all this.
Go with it - read the signals and see what happens. Just be prepared to give him space if he gets weird.
Some alcohol always helps lower inhibitions...
 
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