Ever experience a guy who is rock hard, and even ejaculates from giving oral, but for sex cannot get past a semi, either at all or without coaxing?
Rock Hard giving Oral, Semi for Sex???
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No, sorry - sounds very frustrating for both parties.
69 with a quick turn around to finish?
69 with a quick turn around to finish?
I haven't experienced that either! Sounds kinda weird, and like MB said... very frustrating!
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I usually only get semi-hard from giving oral but get so turned on that I pre cum the entire time I am chowing down, but when its my turn I can deff rise to the occasion
It was frustrating! :smile:
I have been with two guys likes this; one just had a total oral/ride my face/ass licking fetish; the other also had an oral fetish, but was super nervous and I had to coax the penis for a bit. Um, too long! Although, once relaxed, was very long, very strong. Actually, he was the first guy to make me squirt because the session, with oral and fucking, took so friggin' long.
Strangely, both were very masculine, held positions of power, etc., but in bed were total bottoms.
I have been with two guys likes this; one just had a total oral/ride my face/ass licking fetish; the other also had an oral fetish, but was super nervous and I had to coax the penis for a bit. Um, too long! Although, once relaxed, was very long, very strong. Actually, he was the first guy to make me squirt because the session, with oral and fucking, took so friggin' long.
Strangely, both were very masculine, held positions of power, etc., but in bed were total bottoms.
Nice!
Recently my GFs and I have been discussing guys who are really nicely hung (thick, long, both) that can't get fully hard. There was some discussion that it was an over thirty thing, but @ 44, wow. Wonderful to see a few still exist! :wink:
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Well, if I must confess, I have done both... errr.. that is, I've been major hard during oral and not so much for sex... and vice versa! It's a mental thing and depends upon partner. I guess I really get turned on by doing what really turns on the other person... so if I believe they really want intercourse, then I am super hard for that. If I believe they do not, but just want to stroke or suck me, then I am super hard for that. So, Kittie, I guess your desire would be mine, so to speak.
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Many people who are dominant in daily life end up being submissive in bed, as those who are shy in public tend to be dominant in bed. It's a matter of letting someone else take control, or finally being able to take control. At least that's my opinion.
Hmm....while he's busy with whatever is happening at his oral end......can't I take advantage of how hard he is ?
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I misread your post the first time. You say he gets rock hard from giving oral to you? I can only relate it to how I feel. I grew up thinking women didn't enjoy sex (like before I ever had sex). So to see a woman enjoying herself by receiving oral is a big turn on to me and I'll get very hard. But I also get hard from receiving and intercourse. Maybe he feels guilty about receiving pleasure.
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Here's a couple ideas. It might just be a stamina issue. If you spend a lot of time on oral, he might not have much left for intercourse. Have him kegel.
It might just be performance anxiety. He doesn't have to do much for oral, but might lose it a bit if he feels he has to perform.
It might also be that he just needs the extra friction that naturally comes with hands, lips, teeth, etc during a blowjob.
Of course, if he can't really get a hard on, it looks like he could get a job in most porn. They have floppy cocks everywhere. Maybe its normal.
It might just be performance anxiety. He doesn't have to do much for oral, but might lose it a bit if he feels he has to perform.
It might also be that he just needs the extra friction that naturally comes with hands, lips, teeth, etc during a blowjob.
Of course, if he can't really get a hard on, it looks like he could get a job in most porn. They have floppy cocks everywhere. Maybe its normal.
"Mental" is the key term. Sex is almost totally mental...only partly physiological. Without the former, the latter almost never occurs.
This is my erection problem to a tee. Not that it goes completely floppy inside someone, but as a gay buddy of mine said to me in pm here: "a vagina is sometimes like a too-soft pillow." That's not to say it's not pleasurable of course. It's just that the friction is a lot less compared to the hand and mouth action of a blowjob. So I'm going to go against the mental aspect of it and state that it is purely physical, because I honestly think it is.
I'm just like this. I usually have to go down to get really hard to begin with. It's because I'm submissive sexually. The thing to do is when he strts to get soft roll over or push him down and tell him to lick it up. Even better for me is if she is on top to climb up and sit on my face. Better still with a little verbal humiliation and/or teasing.
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