Roles in Gay Relations?

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If you can post you can pile. Jump on.

I know the feeling, by the way. I had to wait even longer to finally be 50!

PS: What happened to your second dick pic? I liked it...

I like fucking... Actually, that is a good place to stop.

I took it down, no comments, and I thought I looked small in it. I'll put it up, I didn't know any one "appreciated it" lol.

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To answer the question in the original post...

In my relationship I am the "male" and my partner is the "male".

We have a lesbian couple that we enjoy spending time with. In their relationship one of them assumes the role of the "female" while the other takes on the role of the "female".

Hope that cleared everything up.






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1) I was just wondering if you could say that in gay relationships one would always be the "female" part and one always the "male" part?

2) And do these roles like top and bottom have certain looks in daily life? In appearance and dress style maybe? Or physical appearance?

1) Gays are usually versatil. I'm not, most times I'm active but in this particulary relationship I'm passive. I just can't be the two roles (I don't know why), at least for now.

2) No way. You could not tell who is a top or who is a bottom, but I'm speaking on my personal experience.

Chau.
 

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Just like everyone else on this planet, gay people come in all shapes, sizes and colors. So trying to get a fix on who looks like what, you'd sometimes be surprised. There is no certain look and there are no secret signals.
In my relationship, I am the male and my bf is the male. In terms of chores around the house, or who does what, we both pitch in to do whatever needs to be done. When it comes time for the bedroom, it all just falls into place for us as natural as can be.
 

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Hey Guys!

I was just wondering if you could say that in gay relationships one would always be the "female" part and one always the "male" part? And do these roles like top and bottom have certain looks in daily life? In appearance and dress style maybe? Or physical appearance?

Ciao again!
I'd say 'yes and no'. Certainly quite a few gay male couples seem to fit this model (of a pseudo husband/wife team) but just as many gay couples definitely don't fit that model at all and it just doesn't seem to apply.

I myself can say that I've been the 'top' and also the 'bottom' in two different gay relationships and I'm the same person and didn't change how I look. And in my third relationship he started out as 'top' and then we sorta switched after a while. Even in the one 'live-in' relationship I had, our 'house-chore' roles (I cooked, he cleaned) didn't match up with our 'sex roles' at all. So I can say for myself, that the male/female top/bottom thing doesn't apply to me or any relationship I've been in. It just doesn't work that way.
 

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I took it down, no comments, and I thought I looked small in it. I'll put it up, I didn't know any one "appreciated it" lol.

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So glad to see it back. Any dick that covers half the width of your fingers and overhangs them by that distance while still completely soft looks anything but small. I keep wondering what it looks like hard. I somehow think real big.

Thank you all for the responses! LPSG is really the place to be for curious persons like me...on their adventure in the real world:p ;)
Glad that you have found this illuminating. It can be a real eye opener to find out how fluid sexuality actually is, and how much variation there is out there.
 

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Hey Guys!

I was just wondering if you could say that in gay relationships one would always be the "female" part and one always the "male" part? And do these roles like top and bottom have certain looks in daily life? In appearance and dress style maybe? Or physical appearance?

Ciao again!

There is no "female" part in a gay male relationship.