After being married for 25+ years, I've tried to spice up Valentine's Day over the past 5 years or so by doing something a little "sexier" for my wife. Neither of us has a very adventurous background in sex or relationships so it doesn't take much to be "sexier" than what we're used to or done in the past. Unfortunately, I've missed the mark more often that not since she is more interested in the notion of romance and I've approached it more from a sexual standpoint (typical male attitude I think). I've done romantic getaways with mixed results, I've tried warming lubricants with sex toys for me to use on her that don't seem to excite her, I've tried exotic underware for both of us that amuses her but stay buried in the drawer year after year, etc., etc. so I'm interested in new and exciting ideas. To her credit, everything I've done she has been willing to try but for most things we try it once or twice and it then sits in the drawer for months or years, forgotten (by her). Ladies, what gifts have worked best for you from your significant other and why? Gentlemen, what have you given your wife/gf that has been well received and really got her juices flowing? What have been your best romantic gifts with a sexual flair? Thanks for the help and suggestions.