There's a very weak spot on me, I guess. Besides my permanent craving for a well-endowed, athletic guys, I have a very weak spot for guys who know how to romance me the way I like it. I guess I'm not alone with that, in fact I guess the majority of women except for some exceptions likes to be romanced. I'd say it is the ultimate long-time key to my bedroom, while I don't take care of this so much with guys that are good for the quick once-over, someone who has manners and knows how to treat me right can be sure to expect more invitations, to be let in deeper than usual. And of course, following my quid pro quo, he can be sure that it will pay off in the treatment and treats I offer. About being romanced, I like it a lot if someone knows the details. Often I catch myself being surprised how many of the small gestures, and small details have gotten lost. Of course, you could say they don't count, it's the idea, but seeing the idea being executed with all the small details and facettes of it is something too, isn't it? Yet I disapprove of affected manners, and I'm very capable of detecting those. Nonchalance is the key, if they are casual, or off the cuff, that really gets my attention. I have little doubts I'll find many women on here who'll disagree with my views. But I'd like to learn about the details - what gets your attention?