room light for sex,your preference?

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do u like light when u having sex? or u like to have sex in a dark room? whats your preference?

personally I dont like to having sex in a dark room, better I like one or two smooth gloomy yellow lights in front left and/or right . I think right light is very important for feeling your partners shapes , and for visual excitement, too much light and taking light in reverse angle is not good.
 

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Shocked, you will learn that the older you get, the more important the lighting (or the botox) becomes.

Anyone getting your hot self in bed would want to leave ALL the lights on.

I hate having sex in the dark -- seeing what's going on is 90 percent of the fun.
 

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I prefer the moon light, candles because i find very sensual...and any place becames very magic iluminated by them...

But dont like sex in the dark because i have to see man eyes, his expressions and his body moves ...so sensual !!!

I too like the full light when i want to play doctor and exame all of his body in detail. But when i memorize his body dont need the full light anymore...close my eyes and wherever i go here he goes with me...hmmmm :tongue:
 

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Yes, me too i like to make love whit light, so i can see my woman, her moves, her eyes, her body, everything... I don't like dark rooms, altought sometimes the sex made on the dark is good too.
 

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Well, you've got me: That's one point that absolutely doesn't matter to me. Whether you have it in the stark light of ceiling lights, beside lights and light from the hallway shining in, in broad daylight, candle light or whatever, I'm game.

Surely, some kinds of lights have their better and worse features. While you see everything in the stark light of all lights, on, it's not really mood-increasing, and seems a touch too sterile. We're not lighting a porn set, after all, so it isn't really needed. Broad daylight might be the best of these alternatives, I love the warming effect of the sun when it shines on me (or my partner), and it feels good, though it is most draining, as I've told in the other thread. Candle light, or any soft lighting, is most atmospheric, maybe the best alternative, but as I said, it is of no importance to me.

The corridors of my apt. building have this great lighting system, it's rows of spots mounted inside the toeboards, and shielded so they only project a cone of light up the wall. Very atmospheric, maybe the perfect "illumination" for sex, I think. I plan to move to an own house around the next months, maybe I'll have a lighting like this installed in the rooms.
 

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I'll concur with all of you above and say that seeing the woman with whom I'm making love (or even just fucking ;) ) is an important part of the experience.

Like Claire, any light from bright sunshine to candlelight is fine with me. I think the 'darkest' environment in which I've had sex was one of those rare middle-of-the-night things were we both woke up at the same time and went at it.
No room light was on, and the moon must not have been full, as she was mostly in shadow. Still had fun. ;)
 

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ClaireTalon said:
Well, you've got me: That's one point that absolutely doesn't matter to me. Whether you have it in the stark light of ceiling lights, beside lights and light from the hallway shining in, in broad daylight, candle light or whatever, I'm game.

Surely, some kinds of lights have their better and worse features. While you see everything in the stark light of all lights, on, it's not really mood-increasing, and seems a touch too sterile. We're not lighting a porn set, after all, so it isn't really needed. Broad daylight might be the best of these alternatives, I love the warming effect of the sun when it shines on me (or my partner), and it feels good, though it is most draining, as I've told in the other thread. Candle light, or any soft lighting, is most atmospheric, maybe the best alternative, but as I said, it is of no importance to me.

The corridors of my apt. building have this great lighting system, it's rows of spots mounted inside the toeboards, and shielded so they only project a cone of light up the wall. Very atmospheric, maybe the perfect "illumination" for sex, I think. I plan to move to an own house around the next months, maybe I'll have a lighting like this installed in the rooms.
Yes... Sex whit a perfect atmosphere is great. And for have a great atmosphere, is necessary a perfect illumination. But the important thing is to make good sex!:cool:
 

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Im quite self conscious about my body so i prefer a low light, where i can see silhouettes and shadows but not everything. Plus i like when i have to feel my way around, its so much more sexy to run my hands over his body rather than to see everything at once
 

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Lee_M said:
Im quite self conscious about my body so i prefer a low light, where i can see silhouettes and shadows but not everything. Plus i like when i have to feel my way around, its so much more sexy to run my hands over his body rather than to see everything at once
Of course during those moments is beautifoul "to explore" the bodies each others, and the darkness makes the ideal atmosphere for it. :wink:
 

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Not bright light. Not darkness either. I think the ideal light for sex is what most people would probably call gloomy.

Pupils dialate during sex, do they not? So bright light is a bit painful, no?
 

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headbang8 said:
<.> Pupils dialate during sex, do they not? So bright light is a bit painful, no?

That's what I was thinking about, one of the disadvantages of bright lights during sex. I can't say it hurts, but it feels disturbing, dazzling.

Could it be that that dilation comes from seeing a big dick, visually taking it in? ;-)
 

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Sometimes it's nice to do it in the dark. The sense deprivation helps to focus on the feelings. Other times it's great with lights just bright enough (candle light will do, onc e you're eyes get used to it) to see each other. My wife sometimes likes to get a good view of my cock going into her. Once or twice we've set up a miror just for the purpose, and she goes "Oh look at that!" etc. and gets turned on by the pornographic image in the mirror.
 

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horribleperson said:
soft lighting

I like the light on but yeah soft lighting is the best. I light to see what's going on but soft lighting is nice and relaxing. I think if the light is too bright I might feel a little self-conscious for some reason.
 

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Well, the videos don't look too good unless the light is bright:tongue: