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    Ok so my roomate comes in my room maybe like 3 or 4 times a month tryin to get some dick He knows im not at all interestd in him. I find him not attractive at all. I told him many times not to come in room when im sleepn and wakre me up.this is an ongoing issue. Been roomates 4 years. I cant move out till lease up next year. And cant shut door at night cuz cat will claw carpet. What should i do next.time. i thought about deckn him a good one and if he hits back either fight or call cops . Any ideas?
     
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    Fotgot to mention he does this when he drinks mostly but at times sober too
     
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    Has he been like that the past 4 years or just recently?
     
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    Not nearly as bad. He just started coming in my room when sleeping in the last year or so. Its so nasty i wake up with his hand near my junk.
     
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    At thirty-one, I would think you'd know how to say "No" and mean it. And, frankly, it's sexual molestation. Tell him you'll report him the next time.
     
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    U think i havent said no. He is bigger than me btw muscle wise. Nut not afraid of him
     
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    I was going to say put a lock on your door...but you have a cat...maybe leave your cat outside your room and lock the door?
     
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    that's sexual assault.

    buy a rape alarm. put it under your pillow. next time he tries it, blast him with it. the nasty shock will make him think twice.

    act like a rapist, get treated like a rapist.
     
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    or fit a chain on your door, so it only opens wide enough for the cat.
     
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    he definitely needs help. AA is a start and some therapy for his sexaully agressive nature.
    have a good sit down with him and get tough on his ass, tell him there will be consequences to his actions.
     
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    Will claw the carpet,wish i could tho.
     
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    what the hell is a rape alram lol
     
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    man i did that,it helps for like awhile then back to normal,he is messed up,alky and so on. I know he likes younger guys too,much younger than him,he is 41 btw. Im thinkin i might deck his ass and if he hits back and takes me down ill have his ass thrown in jail. I dont know what else to do.
     
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    Thing is tho,what if i kick his ass and he calls the cops on me,my word against his.
     
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    small, hand held alarm.
    you push the button and it sets of a deafening, high pitched shriek. i'm guessing it'd only take a second's worth of blast to make him shite himself.
     
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    Well, to be honest I would sneak into your room too but that's beside the point. If I were you I would honestly break the lease with the apartment and go somewhere else.
     
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    If you have the funds, you can buy a cheapy door and have a cat door installed in it (that way the landlords can't get pissed at you when you move for "vandalizing" their door, as you can put the original, prisitine door, back up when you leave)

    Then buy a lock. Cat is happy, no carpet is torn up (and even without the carpet the sound of a cat scratching or even soft pawing at the door is annoting as hell, mine used to do so) and asshat is locked out.
    If he breaks in, deck him and call the cops. The broken door is your evidence. A rape alarm is a good investment.

    Tell the fucktard to get a grip, and tht if he tries it again you WILL press charges.

    Period.
     
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    yea or my neibor,that wont work but nice thought
     
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    Nah that wont work,will cost me alot $$$.
     
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    that maybe an option,just not sure if he can somehow unlock it,he is a maint man and is pretty slick with stuff. Thinkin the press charges deal may work?? Guess i could tell him that and if he breaks in lock myself in the room and call the cops and tell them he is trying to assault me whe he is drunk,then they can get him for dui too when i show them his truck with fresh got home hot motor???
     
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