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My friend, you are in a VERY simliar situation and it's nice to see you're interested in handling it the same way as myself. In my case, I drunkenly allowed a gay friend to go down on me (drunken bj = sober hj? lol)...He kinda figured it might happen and was fine with it but knows I love my girlfriend more than anything and am more straight than gay. I too am in college and this has allowed me to be comfortable saying "hell this is what college is for" This was a one time occation and I haven't told my girlfriend and don't plan too. However I also advise you never do that again unless you either make it clear to your girlfriend, or atleast remove her from the equation (at least for the time being) You'll feel more comfortable about yourself in the end, you'll have prolly gotten it out of your system (as I feel like I am...or will...lol) Good luck and I hope it works out in the end

PS Now would be a good time to walk around the room with less/more penis-suggesting clothing if you want to find out more hahaha
 

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Does your roommate still think your straight after you jerked him off? :tongue: well opening up to him is good. Tell him you are bi and how you feel. Talk with your gf, and if both are happy at it all, go for it :biggrin1:
 

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I agree, anyone who lets you jack him off and is enjoying it is more than likely secretly wishing that you would go down on him. Even if he weren't secretly wishing that, I'm sure that you taking him in your mouth would only make him more greatful.

As far as the GF goes, you need to tell her that you cannot be committed to her right now. You could tell her that you have some unexplored feelings that you need to sort through first and don't want to hurt her in the process.
 

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Thanks for everyone's input, and I have dealt with the issue. I decided that college is a chance for trying new things, and finding out whether or not you like it. I talked with my girlfriend about what I did with my roommate, and she already knew that we were very close. At first she was kind of suprised and confused, but the more we talked about it the more she understood that it was just something I wanted to try out, and that it wouldn't affect my amazing amount of love for her (pehaps I forgot to metion that she is amazingly wonderful!). She understands and knows that nothing is going to change between us. I told my roommate about what I said to her and he was very happy. We also talked and I let him know that I would like to do some more experimenting with him sometime (two days later we had an amazing blowjob! (I wasn't expecting it to be that good!)).

I guess I'm very fortunate to have open-minded, understanding friends, and it's nice to be able to relieve some of my sex drive in a way other than jacking off when my gf isn't there!
 

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Oh good! I'm so glad it all went so smoothly!
Have you any further experimentation plans with said room mate?
 

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hunghokie13 said:
it's nice to be able to relieve some of my sex drive in a way other than jacking off when my gf isn't there!

As others have said, it's great that things worked out and that you have such a cool and understanding girlfriend... but with regard to the above comment, don't lose sight of the fact that it probably won't be possible to continue on like this forever... :cool: So enjoy the moment to the fullest! :smile:
 

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hunghokie13 said:
Thanks for everyone's input, and I have dealt with the issue. I decided that college is a chance for trying new things, and finding out whether or not you like it. I talked with my girlfriend about what I did with my roommate, and she already knew that we were very close. At first she was kind of suprised and confused, but the more we talked about it the more she understood that it was just something I wanted to try out, and that it wouldn't affect my amazing amount of love for her (pehaps I forgot to metion that she is amazingly wonderful!). She understands and knows that nothing is going to change between us. I told my roommate about what I said to her and he was very happy. We also talked and I let him know that I would like to do some more experimenting with him sometime (two days later we had an amazing blowjob! (I wasn't expecting it to be that good!)).

I guess I'm very fortunate to have open-minded, understanding friends, and it's nice to be able to relieve some of my sex drive in a way other than jacking off when my gf isn't there!

Kewl, well done and ...enjoy !!!
 

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hunghokie13 said:
Thanks for everyone's input, and I have dealt with the issue. I decided that college is a chance for trying new things, and finding out whether or not you like it. I talked with my girlfriend about what I did with my roommate, and she already knew that we were very close. At first she was kind of suprised and confused, but the more we talked about it the more she understood that it was just something I wanted to try out, and that it wouldn't affect my amazing amount of love for her (pehaps I forgot to metion that she is amazingly wonderful!). She understands and knows that nothing is going to change between us. I told my roommate about what I said to her and he was very happy. We also talked and I let him know that I would like to do some more experimenting with him sometime (two days later we had an amazing blowjob! (I wasn't expecting it to be that good!)).

I guess I'm very fortunate to have open-minded, understanding friends, and it's nice to be able to relieve some of my sex drive in a way other than jacking off when my gf isn't there!
Good for you. I only hope I'm as lucky as you are when I get a roommate. :cool: