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One guy I was with did not like getting anal, because it hurt, but we were young enough where I thought ok, the more and faster we do it the better he can take it. He was tied down one time doing our kinks, and I started going rough and fast, and he said to slow down, and I told him it helps loosen him up by going fast.
He always liked being a top and me being the bottom, and I didn't care if he went rough

Another guy, we talked about kinks and he was always a top, but I convinced him to bottom, and I'd go slow, which I didn't, and he was in pain for a few days. But he didn't regret it.
 

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I like rough anal, but there always needs to be a conversation about it before people start ramming away. Newbie's especially need to understand what's what and limits respected. How great is it to turn someone off anal sex for good? We're all looking for a good outcome but everyone has to be on the same page. Ignoring limits, refusing to stop, lying to a partner about intentions - that's just bad as bad can be.
 
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Weirdly enough, it really depends on my mood and how big the guy is, obviously.

I like to know I've been fucked... but still like to be able to walk normally lol That being said, I've had some guys grab my hips and fuck me like their dick was going to fall off later. Been fucked so roughly, I thought mine was going to! Lol

Depends on the moment.
 

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One guy I was with did not like getting anal, because it hurt, but we were young enough where I thought ok, the more and faster we do it the better he can take it. He was tied down one time doing our kinks, and I started going rough and fast, and he said to slow down, and I told him it helps loosen him up by going fast.
He always liked being a top and me being the bottom, and I didn't care if he went rough

Another guy, we talked about kinks and he was always a top, but I convinced him to bottom, and I'd go slow, which I didn't, and he was in pain for a few days. But he didn't regret it.

I too like to brag about sexual assault.
 

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Getting your jollies by inflicting pain on someone who can't take it is pathological. And sociopathic. Or both. I'm okay with your vicarious fantasies, but in the real world, I would call it assault and battery. Please don't go there.
 

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More fantasy than reality, rough sex can be great but I prefer slow and steady. To each their own, always consult with your partner. Mine likes that I treat him a bit rough when I top, but I like nice and easy in reverse.
 

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I do like to fuck rough but only when a partner enjoys it. Most encounters begin with me on my back and a partner slowly sliding on so he controls how much he takes how soon. It's okay if he gets on and off several times before taking all of me or gets off and lies in a passive position while I slowly get deeper in him. It's all about communication.

Some guys need more time than others to take it all. It's part of the play. For myself sex is about pleasure, not pain. That said the line between pleasure and pain is different for different individuals. Some guys vocalize in what sounds like pain but don't want me to stop or slow down. Again it's all about communication.

One effective non-verbal communication is the Heisman--a hand or two hands pushing against my torso or thighs to slow me. It is so much fun to withdraw a little at that point and work that depth until he allows me to push past it.

So the answer is no I don't get frustrated. If a partner wants to stop I stop. But it's amazing how many want to start again and keep stopping and starting till I'm all the way in. :cool:

Additional: I long ago learned that a lube injector makes penetration much easier,
 

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I do like to fuck rough but only when a partner enjoys it. Most encounters begin with me on my back and a partner slowly sliding on so he controls how much he takes how soon. It's okay if he gets on and off several times before taking all of me or gets off and lies in a passive position while I slowly get deeper in him. It's all about communication.

Some guys need more time than others to take it all. It's part of the play. For myself sex is about pleasure, not pain. That said the line between pleasure and pain is different for different individuals. Some guys vocalize in what sounds like pain but don't want me to stop or slow down. Again it's all about communication.

One effective non-verbal communication is the Heisman--a hand or two hands pushing against my torso or thighs to slow me. It is so much fun to withdraw a little at that point and work that depth until he allows me to push past it.

So the answer is no I don't get frustrated. If a partner wants to stop I stop. But it's amazing how many want to start again and keep stopping and starting till I'm all the way in. :cool:

Additional: I long ago learned that a lube injector makes penetration much easier,


I'm so glad you mentioned the lube injector, a bottom buddy introduced me to tham and they are the best hing ever. Well, maybe not the best thing ever but a nice addition to play. ;)
 

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I hear from a lot of hung tops how much trouble they have finding guys they can really fuck. In fact, I just shot a porn scene with one this past week. I have the same problem since my thikness is difficult to impossible for many guys to take. Fortunately, I prefer to bottom and can take anything, so I wind up taking care of a lot of the horsemen because I can take their size and hard rough plowing. .
 

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I am pretty new to getting fucked. One bud tried. Hated it. Another bud tried and it hurt for a couple days. Again not a fan
Then I met my most recent fuck bud. He eased in slow with lots of lube. Always checking on me. After a while when he knew I was comfortable he pounded the fuck out of me. I was begging for his cock harder deeper faster. Man I loved it! We were a hot sweaty mess
 

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I like to fuck rough, and if the bottom enjoys it, why not? But I always have to start slowly. The guys I have fucked that way were always rather flexible than loose, i.e. no guys that got fisted before. When I should fuck a guy who is fisted regularly, I'd wonder if I would feel something or if it's just boring.

But it's also nice to go gently, of course. Fucking hard for a longer time is quite some WORK. ;-)
 

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I like to fuck rough, and if the bottom enjoys it, why not? But I always have to start slowly. The guys I have fucked that way were always rather flexible than loose, i.e. no guys that got fisted before. When I should fuck a guy who is fisted regularly, I'd wonder if I would feel something or if it's just boring.

But it's also nice to go gently, of course. Fucking hard for a longer time is quite some WORK. ;-)
Love a top who loves to pound hard!
 
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I won’t say I “love it”, but I will take it because my partner likes to piston fuck like a jackrabbit. I learned the best way for me to take that is with poppers, also benefits because I can loosen up better since he doesn’t like a tight grip. I on the other hand like pumping a tight hole long and hard.....variety is the spice of life