I like both extremes - the slow, soft, tender strokes - as well as being taken really hard - and the variations in between of course. I can come hard from both those opposites - slow grinding, or hard pounding - so it's not always in the force of the stroke... :wink: What feels good and gets me to an orgasm depends on the situation, the guy and of course his size.
I don't like it rough and hard if I'm not really wet, slippery and horny already from the outset. On the other hand - some of the best fucks I've had have been when I've been so horny I've just required big guy, here, now, lots of it and hard... :biggrin1: More often than not I require a bit of warm-up before I can get into that mood when I want it harder and rougher.
I've still been only with guys that mostly fit in length - i.e. I can accept all or most of them, making harder thrusting a bit easier as he doesn't have to think about holding back because of that. I would imagine that with someone moving up towards the 9" mark or above another set of complications come into play. I suspect my own limit in depth is around 8" as M - with around 8.5" - sometimes hits hard enough towards the bottom to make me wince a tiny bit.
Girth is another issue - with guys that move up towards 6" or slightly above it is for me close to impossible to physically enjoy harder thrusting directly from the outset. I need to get used to having that size inside before the muscles relax enough to allow him that freedom to move around. Again with a few very notable exceptions - when I've been aroused, without coming for an extended period of time and get that feeling of "must-have-big-cock-and-lots-of-it-and-now".
I've never bled from sex (if we're excluding the first time ever - however cheesy it may sound...), but I do feel it afterwards if I've been taken hard by a big guy. A deep, dull soreness in the lower abdomen. Similar to cramps in some cases. Sudden movements may hurt a bit as things shift around in there. Ovaries tend to complain and make themselves known if they have taken a beating (which they often do with hard thrusting). Sometimes even a muscle soreness like when you've been working out too hard - the vaginal and also the abdominal muscles do take a beating - especially with a girthy guy, and especially with pro-longed sex.
At least for me I kind of enjoy that feeling in itself. Again as cheesy as it may sound - I like that someone has left that kind of impression in me. Like that I have to take it easy the next day, pamper myself a bit (or even better - have him pamper me and take care of me...). That I can feel him even the day after. In all honesty - that feeling in itself makes me horny, makes me want to have more.