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some sick kinky people {blush...attempt looking innocently curious} quite like aggressive sex that kinda hurts....find something erotic in male aggression...

perverts!

yes. this is my type of woman. I like a little pain with my pleasure... or pleasure in such abundance that eventually it leads to pain... and I appreciate having partners with similar attitudes. I used to love it when my first girlfriend would ride on top of me, sit up and push her hips down hard on my cock and then say something like: "ooooooohhh, that hurts sooooo good."
 

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does having a big wang stop you indulging in that kind of kink?
do you worry about causing injury?
do your partners want rough sex but get frustrated that you're too big for that?

do you have a horror story in your past?

...because a really hard hatefuck hurts with 7"...hurts in a good way.
but would bigger spoil the fun? or enhance it?

First off, I presume you are talking about penis length. My larger size is more in girth than length, so keep that in my in regards to my reply.

I worried quite a bit about injury in my younger years. My first girlfriend found sex, at least at first, to be quite painful. It required quite a bit of stretching that she found quite uncomfortable. Unfortunately, I was relatively sexually inexperienced at the time as well, and stupidly took lessons in how I was supposed to fuck from my friends' accounts of their sexual encounters. I was too stupid to realize that with my girth, I wasn't going to be able to just slip in and pound away like a madman like my friends were claiming they were doing. I wouldn't say I injured her, but I would say she found it traumatic. We tried again a few weeks later, and it went better, and over time made it work. But she never wanted it hard since she found softer sex to even be a little painful.

That experience and the fact that I spent most of my life around big, strong, and pretty tough guys, left me with impression of women being very fragile, more so than they really are. I can't say that I ever felt much frustration over not getting much rough sex. My time on the ice took care of most of my aggressive needs. As a result, I have generally preferred sex to be more gentle and intimate. I get off on exploring my masculine sexuality less on being rough, but rather finding the right balance of dominance and aggression. They aren’t the same thing. Younger guys, please take note of that!

All that being said, after I met my wife, particularly after we got married, she began to purposefully draw out more of my aggressive instincts. Occasionally she wants it quite rough, and I am more than happy to give her what she wants, but she is usually the one who calls the shots in regards to that though not allways.

I guess apart from my first girlfriend I don't have any real horror stories, and even that one isn't that bad considering.

I hope this answers your question.
 

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With my present girl friend I must be very carefull going in because shes always tight altho once in she is able to take me as hard and deep as i want to go and has only bled once but shes the only one to take me all the way.
 

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I love rough sex, I like to ram hard and deep. It's always good to leave a lady with a warm soreness so she'll know you've 'visited'. I've never had a problem with too much pain from rough sex, although I'm only 7x6.
 

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I guess I'm lucky then, because I pound the living hell out of my girlfriend pretty much every time and she loves it (she's the one who asks for it). Even tohugh I'm not too big at 8x6, I almost always have to start slow.
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I guess I'm lucky then, because I pound the living hell out of my girlfriend pretty much every time and she loves it (she's the one who asks for it). Even tohugh I'm not too big at 8x6, I almost always have to start slow.
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Then count your blessings, bro - we're the same size, I guess I've just been unlucky in my intimate relationships, at least relating to pounding speed and intensity. But yeah, you GOTTA start slow, lol... afterwards, it gets easier and I can usually pick up speed, but never has fast and as hard as I seem to want...
 

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Then count your blessings, bro - we're the same size, I guess I've just been unlucky in my intimate relationships, at least relating to pounding speed and intensity. But yeah, you GOTTA start slow, lol... afterwards, it gets easier and I can usually pick up speed, but never has fast and as hard as I seem to want...

For sure. I can relate though, I havent been able to pound any other woman I've been with like I pound my current girfriend. The first time we had sex was a real eye opener, before her I never thought I could pound someone that hard.
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I like both extremes - the slow, soft, tender strokes - as well as being taken really hard - and the variations in between of course. I can come hard from both those opposites - slow grinding, or hard pounding - so it's not always in the force of the stroke... :wink: What feels good and gets me to an orgasm depends on the situation, the guy and of course his size.

I don't like it rough and hard if I'm not really wet, slippery and horny already from the outset. On the other hand - some of the best fucks I've had have been when I've been so horny I've just required big guy, here, now, lots of it and hard... :biggrin1: More often than not I require a bit of warm-up before I can get into that mood when I want it harder and rougher.

I've still been only with guys that mostly fit in length - i.e. I can accept all or most of them, making harder thrusting a bit easier as he doesn't have to think about holding back because of that. I would imagine that with someone moving up towards the 9" mark or above another set of complications come into play. I suspect my own limit in depth is around 8" as M - with around 8.5" - sometimes hits hard enough towards the bottom to make me wince a tiny bit.

Girth is another issue - with guys that move up towards 6" or slightly above it is for me close to impossible to physically enjoy harder thrusting directly from the outset. I need to get used to having that size inside before the muscles relax enough to allow him that freedom to move around. Again with a few very notable exceptions - when I've been aroused, without coming for an extended period of time and get that feeling of "must-have-big-cock-and-lots-of-it-and-now".

I've never bled from sex (if we're excluding the first time ever - however cheesy it may sound...), but I do feel it afterwards if I've been taken hard by a big guy. A deep, dull soreness in the lower abdomen. Similar to cramps in some cases. Sudden movements may hurt a bit as things shift around in there. Ovaries tend to complain and make themselves known if they have taken a beating (which they often do with hard thrusting). Sometimes even a muscle soreness like when you've been working out too hard - the vaginal and also the abdominal muscles do take a beating - especially with a girthy guy, and especially with pro-longed sex.

At least for me I kind of enjoy that feeling in itself. Again as cheesy as it may sound - I like that someone has left that kind of impression in me. Like that I have to take it easy the next day, pamper myself a bit (or even better - have him pamper me and take care of me...). That I can feel him even the day after. In all honesty - that feeling in itself makes me horny, makes me want to have more.
 

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I really like it a bit rough..!! Many girls love to be taken hard and I love it as well.! Usually they want it more soft next time. Have a couple of girls seeing the doctor afterwards as well, and thats not so fun i think. I love it slow and soft also, but it depends a bit on the lady!! ;-)
 

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A really hard hatefuck hurts with 7"...hurts in a good way. Would bigger spoil the fun? or enhance it?
Hmm, a hatefuck . . . is that when it Hurts So Good? :flirt: Damn! I have got to get out more. I had almost forgotten what this was like.:05: I've experienced this with only two men. One was 7x5.25 and the other was 8x6. The 8x6 guy made me bleed a bit which killed the moment for both of us; :frown1: but did not send me to the hospital. Didn't bleed with the 7x5.25 guy, but did wish he had more girth . . . so I could really feel the pain. :biggrin1:
Do you have a horror story in your past? ... If you're curious the one time I bled I was on the edge of the bed feet (actually toes) on the floor, he stood behind me and held my hips as he thrusted. At varying points he would lift my legs, sort of like in a wheelbarrow race and thrust that way. Hmmm, I'd almost forgotten about that. We broke up a few weeks later after 10 years together so yeah I guess that was a hate fuck. :biggrin1: It was a month before my 30th birthday and 2 months before I finished my MAT in Museum Education at The George Washington University. On the bright side, I did get two lovely parting gifts: a Sony three CD stereo, and a few months earlier a trip to DisneyWorld, Epcot and Universal Studios complete with 5-Day Hopper Pass. :smile: Every cloud has a silver lining.

I would say a negative. Sex isn't always for love but personally I don't believe it should be about pain either.
It's not always about pain. Sometimes it's about dominance without humiliation. :flirt:

Is it too much if you bleed from extreme hard fucking?
Well for me it is. In the past the sight of blood has killed the moment for both of us.
 

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does having a big wang stop you indulging in that kind of kink?
do you worry about causing injury?
do your partners want rough sex but get frustrated that you're too big for that?

do you have a horror story in your past?

...because a really hard hatefuck hurts with 7"...hurts in a good way.
but would bigger spoil the fun? or enhance it?

If I am patient an give the woman long enough to adjust, I can nail her pretty hard without her experiencing much pain. But I always keep an eye on her facial expressions. Just so that I do't get too carried away and really hurt her. Most woman say that even then it hurts, but in a good way.
 

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For me it really depends, on what time of the month it is, how horny I am etc etc....I like to start off slow, and deep, working myself to a frenzy. My own personal tastes tends to lean towards deep and slow...( long strokes)

For the most part, having sex with someone 9 x 6 or bigger and having really rough sex hurts,........... however I have to admit I love the feeling of being sore the next day.......It's not a painful feeling just one of contentment......and being satisfied.
 

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For me it really depends, on what time of the month it is, how horny I am etc etc....I like to start off slow, and deep, working myself to a frenzy. My own personal tastes tends to lean towards deep and slow...( long strokes)

For the most part, having sex with someone 9 x 6 or bigger and having really rough sex hurts,........... however I have to admit I love the feeling of being sore the next day.......It's not a painful feeling just one of contentment......and being satisfied.
i prefer girth to length...but i love it rough!

add some biting, hair pulling, pinning my wrists & i'm in heaven.
 

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I wasn't going to post about this, but I am interested in putting forward my experience and seeing whether it is usual or whether I should be sectioned.

Of course there are things that I like, but during penetrative sex, I will go with the woman. However if someone keeps asking you to go harder harder faster, there is a point at which something else just clicks in and you (I) just fuck so hard it's like you are trying to destroy her. It's like a challenge, the gauntlet, I can take it, give me more. I will take that challenge if you throw it at me.
 

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I wasn't going to post about this, but I am interested in putting forward my experience and seeing whether it is usual or whether I should be sectioned.

Of course there are things that I like, but during penetrative sex, I will go with the woman. However if someone keeps asking you to go harder harder faster, there is a point at which something else just clicks in and you (I) just fuck so hard it's like you are trying to destroy her. It's like a challenge, the gauntlet, I can take it, give me more. I will take that challenge if you throw it at me.
*swoon*

love, affection, respect...yeah, great.

but sometimes i just want to be used like a fucktoy.

...i think it's not as rare as you'd imagine. we're just told so often that making love is where it's at, so we're scared to admit to more animalistic urges.
 

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I wasn't going to post about this, but I am interested in putting forward my experience and seeing whether it is usual or whether I should be sectioned.

Of course there are things that I like, but during penetrative sex, I will go with the woman. However if someone keeps asking you to go harder harder faster, there is a point at which something else just clicks in and you (I) just fuck so hard it's like you are trying to destroy her. It's like a challenge, the gauntlet, I can take it, give me more. I will take that challenge if you throw it at me.

That's exactly how my wife got me to get a little rough (okay a lot rough) with her for the first time. She just kept asking and asking, more insistantly each time. Eventually something click in my head and I said to myself, "Okay you fucking cunt, you want it? Let's see if you can fucking handle it." It wasn't until afterwards that I realized I had actually said that outloud. :redface:

I totally thought she was going to rip my balls off, but she was okay with it. If fact, she was happy that I had finally let go. That's when I finally realized that she really did want it that way every so often and it was okay for me to let go and give her what she wanted.