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Claire,
The ultimate pleasure should NOT be about "drama." It should be about joy, pleasure, pain, journey and reaching beyond any point or limit you thought you could possibly go.
 

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KinkGuy said:
Claire,
The ultimate pleasure should NOT be about "drama." It should be about joy, pleasure, pain, journey and reaching beyond any point or limit you thought you could possibly go.

I'm sorry, I guess I'm not kinky enough for you then. I have my limits, and won't pass them, and if a guy tries to convince me, he won't be successful. Pain is nothing that belongs into the bedroom (unless certain aches ;-)), and journey should be done by train, ship or plane, and the most pleasure I can get out of a very old-fashioned, hard fucking.
 

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I wonder how rough is too rough when it comes to sex. My intentions are always to take it slow, and work up to the rough stuff, but that last time I feel sorry for the guy. I was already in a bad mood and had to work a longer than normal shift. When I got there the very first thing he said is "let's do this, lats not waste time" so I screwed him. Not like the first, but hard, almost balls deep, make you want a time out, the sheets are turning red kind of screw. I'm now aware that I can cause injury and it frightens me. He assured me that it was O.k., normal, not painful but pleasurable, but I feel bad. I may have injured him, because I'm sure blood isn't normal, at least I think that was blood. It was red, but it smelled awful.

Just wondering.:cool:
 

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ClaireTalon said:
Yes, it is for responsible people. I have my limit where roughness ends and violence starts, and I take a lot of care that this limit won't be exceeded. And if a man thinks I will exceed it if he just crosses it, he'll be out of my apartment faster than he can say shit.

But then I am a very aggressive girl too - I don't know how many bite marks I left on how many men's arms, shoulders and chests throughout the years, and the "Talon" isn't there without reason either. But if you go wild during good sex that's something different than violence. I don't wanna be hurt on purpose either, but if there's some pain and traces of combat, I don't mind either.

Yes Claire your posts and Zora's, took the words from my head !!! :tongue:

Thank god, because i could not express of all that with my limited english...:biggrin1:
 

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ah well it takes all kinds. and as with a lot of things, unless a person is really into it they dont know the ins and outs. Even people into S and M have boundaries, believe it or not! were not all sadistic.
 

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I haven't been much into the rough stuff, maybe its the partners I have had, but I find that for me personally, the intimacy is a lot more exciting and arousing than the actual acts themselves. Just my own 2 cents. When I am really into a woman, and have feelings for them, the sex is more amazing than any one night stand with the hottest woman imaginable!
 

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Talking about S&M. I agree with kink guy. There are loads of kinky guys out there who know how to please a woman. However youve got to both be into it. I wouldnt dream of trying to have interesting sex with someone who was obviously vanilla. I would suss them out b4 i got to that stage anyway. Sex should be fun. Its not all wham bam. Thats soo boring.
 

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Variety is the spice of life.

Yes, if I am in über sexual-overdrive
then yeah, nothing works for me like
hard, fast and rough but not all the
time.

It's changing it up and keeping it fresh
that's the really kink in sex...not getting
stuck in a rut...(pun possibly intended)
 

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OMG....

All this talk about rough sex....turned me into a puddle of goo....

Where's that lpsg fleshpile !!!?

....and where's Lex.... ?
:wink:
 

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I just read this thread with interest. I am a total bottom. I enjoy it hard, fast, rough--anally or orally. Like to be choked, slapped, punched, whipped with belts and floggers. Love nipple clamps. Love to have balls and gut punched to the point of extreme pain and bruising. I have had needles through balls, cock, tits. I have also had cigarettes put out on cock, balls, tits, ass inner thighs. I have had electrical torture. I get incredible pleasure from the pain and want to go farther and farther, which is kind of scary to me. Just know that there are all kinds of people out there. And for some of us, pain is intense pleasure.
 

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I don't get off on rough sex for the sake of rough sex, I like it when my friend is worked up to the point of being passionate and needs what I'm giving him so much that he takes it from me.

Once i'm good and relaxed i find it easier for him to take my mouth like he would a woman's pussy; I can cum without touching myself when I know he is getting pleasure from me.
 

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I spanked my wifes ass once while doing her doggy, it was a good thing she couldn't clobber me! She didn't like it and it didn't do anything for me either.
 

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I love it rough maybe 75% of the time, as long as it's about passion and not violence, per se.

What a person can experience in terms of BDSM is so varied. An adventurous and creative person could never exhaust the possibilities in a single lifetime. That being said, of course it's for each of us to choose what we will or will not participate in.
 

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no gag reflex said:
I don't get off on rough sex for the sake of rough sex, I like it when my friend is worked up to the point of being passionate and needs what I'm giving him so much that he takes it from me.

Once i'm good and relaxed i find it easier for him to take my mouth like he would a woman's pussy; I can cum without touching myself when I know he is getting pleasure from me.

echo this comment...and that avatar is wild son
 

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Oh dear god I love spontaneous rough sex. (I have to make that distinction)

Like when you and your partner haven't seen each other for a while, and can't wait to slam the door behind you. When you don't care about the fact that the she just tore all the buttons of your brand new Saks 5th shirth or that the lamp got kicked over, because the two of you just need to that bad on the spot - thats tha shit.

Its almost like you're both trying to out dominate each other but don't want to win, but know that you're going to anyway.

Oh I love it.