Rough Sex

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  1. TitanicJake

    TitanicJake New Member

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    I was not sure where to put this thread and I feel I am opening myself up more but I don't know if I have a problem. I am a sportsman and I play rough and work hard. I also have sex the same way. I was taught & shown that sex is like any sport. To me sex is all about dominating and going animal with someone or a few people. There have been times when I kind of blacked out and did not quite remember everything but that was back in college.
    I love gagging someone with my cock and I like watching them stuggle to take it down their throat. I also like it when they squeeze my nuts as a signal to exit their throat but I keep it there for a moment longer.
    I truly love rough intercourse. I feel I was born to fuck and I go crazy. When I have someone in doggie position I just look at that round smooth bounty and as they say "Go slow" or "Stop if I tell you" I give them a kiss and just plow that ass while smacking it. Sometimes people have begged me to stop and I didn't and it became a wrestling match which made me love it more. Some people were angry after but then rang my door a few days later for more. I've had a few people pass out during sex.
    I'm not into leather or bondage or anything like that. I just like a hot naked body (or more than one). My trainer thinks it's when I have sex after lifting or wrestling. My brother says he is the same way as if it's a family trait. Sometimes after I long intense fuck session when someone is sore or a little hurt I rethink how I fuck but then the next time I have sex I find myself doing what I always do. I usually have sex about 4 times a week (6 days a week in the summer).
    Anyone feel they just lose a little bit of control during sex?
    Anyone ever had someone lose control on them?

    Jake
     
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    You see this thread, Man to Man Sex? It may help answer some questions.

    The point of passing out is a bit much. There's a close line between rough sex and assault. I'd like to know someone well before worrying about cops at my door. With the right guy I'm very open and aggressive but can also be passive. Depends on the dynamics of the relationship (for whatever duration that may be).

    I do love rough, hairy, sweaty, smelly, aggressive sex. It's a huge turn-on for me.
     
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    That all sounds extremely unpleasant to me.
     
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    Ditto.
     
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    Uh-huh.

    It doesn't sound like you use safe words, but I suggest you start, especially if you don't know these people. You know, agree on a word that means chill or I'll press charges.

    Otherwise, someone might take their rug burns, wrist bruises, bite marks and bloodied bits to the police station and your life would never be the same.
     
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    Sounds like you push to the limits (and then some). A lot of people would think ithas gone too far, that you may be abusive and too aggressive, Yes, knowing a safe word for someone to say when you are at that point would be good, but as u said, squeezing ur nuts is the same type of thing. Are you too aggressive? Too much of a bully or a jock? Too dominating? Again, to some you may be and you need ot be toned down. But just like you said, there are others who will get off on it. There are those who have been with a guy like you who want to be dominated and pushed to thier limits. Passing out &#8212; did those who pass out do so from ecstasy? Or were you doing something more threatening? Choking them with your cock in their throat or holding their throat with your hands? That seems to go a step to far if it is the latter. However, two consenting adults are allowed to do a lot of things. Might just want to make sure you don't go TOO far. Aight?
     
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    He could kill someone.
     
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    I don't remember him saying anything about choking them(physically). But that's always fun too.
     
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    :rolleyes:

    Yes, it's all good fun until someone chokes, aspirates into their lungs, and dies.
     
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    I really enjoy rough sex, a bit of slapping and very hard penetration, but I think you might be going too far if you make people actually black out!! How hard are you fucking them to make them do that??

    A lot of people do like to be fucked roughly, I remember my ex said she loved how I made her pussy a bit sore for a couple of days, so she could still feel me.
     
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    titanicjake,

    Sounds like youre just telling us all your fetishes, thats cool, just be yourself.:rolleyes: All you got to do now is find others into the same.:smile: Be who you are, not who people want you to be, or you`ll get stuck in dogma for the rest of your life.



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    A friend was actually smothered in a hot tub while going down on someone underwater. The guy was a little heavy and blowing a heavy guy, and got caught under the water and choked to death. No water in lungs, just dick blocking airway... so it could have happened out of the tub...

    Big story here about 8 years ago, since it was at a "health club"
     
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    Oh that's horrible. Sorry about your friend.

    I hope the OP reads this.
     
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    Once he finds those with the same fetishes, he`ll either run like hell after they do him the same, or he`ll love it more, the big picture here is that he does it with those who like it and not force it on those who have not concented to that fetish. Like it`s been said already though, if he takes it too far with someone and it turns into a bad situation, he`s screwed, especially if they have not concented to it and are forced. He`ll be doin 5 to 10 in the poky, there he`ll get all the rough sex he wants.:biggrin1:



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    I really like what I call rough, but playful sex. This can range from slapping and spitting to gagging and deep penetration. Other more intense practices and fetishes can be incorporated into the play, but really depend on the limits of your partner(s). Limits must be respected, and although I myself don't often use "safe words", anyone unsure of their limits or those of their partner(s) should consider them.

    Some secrets I've picked up along the way to engaging in rough sex that doesn't cross over into assault territory:

    1) Make certain that your partner is not just consenting, but enthusiastic. Really rough stuff isn't for novices.
    2) Negotiate limits prior to beginning anything, and keep communicating throughout the play.
    3) Do not mix sex with drugs and/or alcohol. The dom, especially, should always be sober.
    4) Be cautious with anyone you don't know well, or you may end up over your head.
    5) Keep a playful attitude. Explore role scenarios, for instance. And keep some humor and joy in it.
    6) In porn, this kind of scene starts at 9 in intensity and never lets up, but only lasts for 20-30 minutes. In real life these scenes should gradually build in intensity over as much time as you and your partner(s) need. Take cues from your partner(s) and increase slowly over several hours. Allow yourselves to plateau and really enjoy each of the various levels.
    7) Take breaks, keep communicating, keep hydrated.

    I take enormous pleasure in this kind of stuff and find it immensely satisfying, but only in the right situation and with the right partner(s).
     
  16. Principessa

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    OMG! :eek: That's horrible!

    Agreed!



    I don't know where you live but I am so glad I have never had sex with you or a man like you.:cool: Which is pretty amazing as I am submissive in bed. Communication is key and your inability to listen to a partners pleas to stop, does not sound appealing or sexy to me. I think you need to seek some professional help before you hurt someone.
     
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    I like a little rough sex. Smacking asses and some hard penetration is great. It's all meaningless if who I'm having sex with is not getting off. I love watching porn. Some of the porn these days has some light face slapping and boob slapping. I don't find any of that hot at all.
     
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    After talking with my brother a bit last night he told me he thinks that the amount of porn we were exposed to at a young age helped form the type of lovers we are. My father had a ton of it. Not that that is an excuse. I guess it does explain why I always want to go full throttle for a long time. The times when people passed out drugs/drinking was involved except for a few times in high school when I was too inexperienced.
    I sometimes forget that my father would be so drunk that he would have sex withsomeone with the door open. I was 10 or 11 and remember hearing the sounds and sometimes taking a peak with my brothers. I guess that all comes into play.
    I'm not expressing a fetish exactly. I just didn't know if other people truly enjoyed rough sex like I do.
    Thanks everyone for listening.
    Jake
     
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    Yes people like rough sex, but some of what you wrote is worrisome. Are you a bit worried too?

    It sounds like you grew up in chaos. A drunk father. Was your mother around?

    What kind of porn? Pictures or videos? Was he having sex with lot of different partners?

    Do you know there is such a thing as emotional incest? Exposing young kids to adult sexuality is a way of sexually abusing children even if no touching is involved. It can make them hyper-sexual. Porn is rocket fuel to young boys, and so is seeing your father having sex. It was dead wrong for him to be so drunk and reckless.

    And you've mentioned wrestling, which can stimulate boys, as well as link aggressive behavior with sexual arousal. I can also guess that wrestling made you feel good about yourself and gave some structure to your chaotic life.

    Ideally, sexuality should be a gradual discovery, not hit you like a bomb.
    Feelings like tenderness and closeness take time, time it sounds like you were denied.

    You also could have a problem with drugs and alcohol and you might need help with that.

    But you're right, there is a link between your past and your present behavior. It's not an excuse unless you make it one.

    I think you're going to be ok.

    More later.


     
  20. blackbottom2

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    I like rough sex like you describe - just not the blacking out phases- it always has to stop before or when it is at that stage

    Its your responsibility to ensure the safety of the other person- Im not sure you could snap out of your sexually charged mindset to take a step back and change to one of caring for the person who may be seriously injured

    To me that is not good I prefer having it off with someone I know can and will care
     
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