I'm the last person to ever deny the fun of edge play and very rough sex, but it's only as fun when your with a person with the same preferance. Appart from masturbation, you ever have sex by yourself - selfish thinking really cuts out atleast 50% of the fun and will help you focus, not to lose control. But don't be scared to let some of the control still be with your partner, using safe-words is a fun way to make sure you're still on the same level.
And if sex were a sport, remember the rules would vary with the people playing. What could score you a homerun with one partner, doest have to be working for any other that walks on the field. And eventhough its nice to win once, you'd be a hell of a better player if you could find a way to do well ll tye time. Adapt.
And if sex were a sport, remember the rules would vary with the people playing. What could score you a homerun with one partner, doest have to be working for any other that walks on the field. And eventhough its nice to win once, you'd be a hell of a better player if you could find a way to do well ll tye time. Adapt.