I'm really into rough sex. It's really hard to find many people who are willing to go the distance.
I love rough sex, especially bondage and cock and ball torture. Electro play is also great fun.
I love hitting it hard from the back, I like to go deep, I like pulling hair. I dislike the hair pulling. I don't get what guys love about it. One of the things I really enjoy doing is speading an ass apart, sliding in, and than squeezing the ass back together and pounding the shit out of it...Oh God yes! I love that too!:wink::biggrin1:
I've got a question... a novice question at that...Twice last night the guy who was in both 3-ways took both cocks up his ass without any problem. The one guy was average but the other guy looked to be right at the 7" mark. I thought you'd need lube to get in but both the tops just bent the other guy over and went to it. Is that because they were barebacking or was it because the bottom pre-lubed or was it because he learned how to relax himself to permit entry without it? Granted we were in a steamroom where everyone's all sweaty yet I was pretty impressed by the ease with which he got fucked. The few times I barebacked as a teen I used lube except for the first time when it became OBVIOUS that lube of some kind was needed.
I've got a question... a novice question at that....
Twice last night the guy who was in both 3-ways took both cocks up his ass without any problem. The one guy was average but the other guy looked to be right at the 7" mark. I thought you'd need lube to get in but both the tops just bent the other guy over and went to it. Is that because they were barebacking or was it because the bottom pre-lubed or was it because he learned how to relax himself to permit entry without it? Granted we were in a steamroom where everyone's all sweaty yet I was pretty impressed by the ease with which he got fucked. The few times I barebacked as a teen I used lube except for the first time when it became OBVIOUS that lube of some kind was needed.
Excellent question and I'd love to have someone more experienced than me provide an answer. My first time having anal sex was summer 2006 he was about 7x5 maybe 5.25 girth. He applied some lube to my anus but he didn't finger or rim me prior to anal sex. He wore a lubricated condom and slid right in. At first, I swear to God I didn't feel a thing! I almost asked if he was in, :redface: and 2 seconds later he was balls deep, thats when I felt intense pain but it only lasted maybe a minute. After that it was all good.:biggrin1::wink: After a while (15-20 minutes) I had him apply more lube.
I'm guessing anal sex isn't that easy for everyone the first time. I have no idea why it was that easy for me. I've onlt taken one other guy anally and he had a thicker girth at the head. The head was always hard to get in but once it was. It was great.
Me too, I absolutely love ruff sex. Finding the right partner is the key and YES communication is the key, but the tolerance has to be BUILT UP into the frenzy that is looked for. Its like getting into your exercise routine, its the warm up that is the most important, and thats when it becomes PLEASURE PAIN. One can quiver in an orgasm if done properly. PS, Whats with the barebacking??? HIV is on the increase, Are we not educated enough?? Shit yeah, have fun, but dont kill yourself doing it. Cheers.
bbucko said:It's safe to assume that the DP raw bottom was poz already.
It's safe to assume that the DP raw bottom was poz already. If not, it's just a matter of time. Barebacking between two (or more) poz guys leaves them open to some nasty STIs but re/superinfection is not borne out by the science. We who are HIV positive are perhaps the most heavily monitored group of patients in the history of medicine, with full panels drawn every 3-4 months. If there were a problem, given the vast number of cases in the US, Canada, Europe & Australia (where serosorting and barebacking is a very common thing), we'd have heard about it by now.
Just for the record, I went down on him briefly, then jacked him, before he blew me. Yes, I assumed he was positive as I assume everyone I have sex with is positive.