I think Dumbcow is "udderly" terrific and if I'm kissing ass, at least I know it's one that can make great fertilizer!
:kiss: Thanks! You can use my fertilizer any time
If Dumbcow bothers you, I can think of only a few possible reasons. He either got into an argument with you while trying to protect one of his friends here; or you have been jaded by life and you take things way too seriously. He is the sweetest, nicest member here. He is not dishonest, weak or fake.
:hug: It must be the latter, bacause we never had contact before her first negative mention of me. (as far as I can remember)
I agree with this, rubi, to an extent. There are people who are simply venomous. There are generally good people who lapse into being venomous from time to time. I think the disctinction between what is uselessly hateful and what is passionate is whether something advances discussion or not. I know, for example, that it's not very nice of me to find dumbcow's persona on LPSG irritating. But for the sake of discussion as it adds to the thread and to dumbcow's assertions within this thread, it's a valid point. In no way do I expect dumbcow to change or even give a shit about what I think, not do I think my opinion is worth any more than anyone else's except that it's mine. I'm sure there are plenty of people here who find me distasteful-- or self-righteous, as it were. To tell me so isn't mean, and is completely within someone's rights, as is my opinion that they are morons. Such is life.
I don't actually think you are venomous and I don't think lowly of you. No matter what you may have said, I still respect you so I do care and do want to listen and take on board everything you say, and I hope that feeling is mutual.
When you see it happening, stand up for it then. The generalities just seem like whingeing.
I do. When I see something I disagree with, I do stand up for it.
I'd rather you tell me to fuck off rather than to do it backhandedly so as you did above. There's no denying that you're an asskisser-- and a lot of people love you for it. You are well-loved on this board especially for the short time you've been here precisely because you purposefully stroke people's egos. You undermine yourself by the amount of whingeing you do about how you or others are mistreated because the majority sides with you and likes you very much.
I don't agree with the use of curses and foul language, which is why I will never tell you to fuck off. It would just result in negativity. And I like being kind, which is why I do it. I'm nice on LPSG, as I am nice outside LPSG.
Nope. You never will. So do what you do and fuck 'em if they don't get it.
No comment.
You can't even begin to fathom who I am and what I'm about based on what you've read on LPSG. So don't go there.
I would like the same thing to go for me. There are reasons why I am who I am. I'm not false, I'm not insipid and you just have to deal with the candy floss.
So, I propose we draw a line under this and appreciate that we are two very different individuals, who have been moulded by our presumably very different experiences. I'm not going to change, you aren't going to change and goodness knows nobody else is going to change.
End of discussion.