Rugby teams and group sex: GoldCoaster's statement

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  1. B_henry miller

    B_henry miller New Member

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    I was fascinated by this statement by GoldCoaster:

    I grew up in a rugby state (Union and League) and, like most of my girlfriends, I've dated a lot of guys who played one or the other code. Never had one who was anything more than average in bed and I don't recall any of my friends experiencing different. Rugby guys are just too far up themselves to be good between the sheets and, for some reason, strangely obsessed with having sex in groups or while their friends are watching.
    http://www.lpsg.org/52543-sandbach-rugby-team-6.html#post1823275

    Does anyone have any thoughts or insights, thoughts, anecdoates, with regard to this topic? As I mentioned to GoldCoaster, I found this fascinating. Thanks.
     
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    I find that interesting also. The Internet is full of pictures and video clips of rugby teams participating in public naked horseplay. This tendency toward public display has to be rooted somewhere in the rugby psyche. Maybe it is a route route for the group to bolster and compensate for personal inadequacy.

    Just my $.02 worth.
     
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    Actually, now that you mention it, football at my university is the main sport, of course, but there is a rugby team -- and they have a controversial annual tradition of getting naked and running around. Curious.
     
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    why is group sex a sign of immaturity?

    i used to be a real gang bang queen, so I was inadequate? Well, perhaps. but it was also a lot of fun.

    never got done by a rugby team though so can't defend them. definitely, an aussie rules team, and that was great!
     
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    Who said it was a sign of immaturity?
     
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    then again, maybe not:wink:
     
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