Ruined by your big cock?

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by cadehung, Mar 19, 2011.

  1. cadehung

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    I think having a big cock has ruined me in a way. Do you other well hung gay/bi guys feel the same? Let me explain. At 7.5 inches, the length of my dick is nicely above average, but at 7 inches in circumference, the girth of my cock is way above average, 95th percentile or higher, probably higher. As you guys know, there are pros and cons related to having a big dick. For example, after whipping it out at a racy party or event, you get a lot of offers for sex from others, including hotties of all ages, races and ethnicities. To me, that's a good thing, that's a pro. An example of a con is that lots of people try to see if they can deep-throat you, which often means TEETH! and a sore dick. Sometimes they use your big dick as a handle to pull up on when they're trying to get up after giving you head, which HURTS!, and is also a con. Maybe some of you have had similar experiences. The BIGGEST CON for me related to having a big dick, is that I want other guys to also be rather well endowed, especially in terms of girth. Maybe that's because I'm so used to the fatness of my own dick. Whatever the reason, it's a problem because, duh, the vast majority of guys have average-sized dicks. If a guy is attractive in other ways, it won't stop me from becoming involved with him, but there is a bit of me that still craves the fat juicy one. That's what I mean by feeling a bit ruined or having ruined expectations or hard to satisfy cravings because of having a big dick. Any thoughts or comments? Do you experience something similar? I'm not looking for sympathy, because if I had a choice, I'd still go with the big one.
     
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    Are you sure your dick is 7" in circumference?
     
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    Absolutely. It's not very complicated when you use a measuring tape.
     
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    hmmm . . . it doesn't look that thick in your pics, but if you say so I guess that settles it.
     
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    I get so tired of people questioning others about their size...
    My husband has an 8" circumference penis and I get the same questions. It is what it is...deal with it. His penis looks very thick to me.
     
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    It's just that most porn stars aspire, and report, to be 6" around. So, anything above that, well, real or not, it will be questioned.
     
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    If his dick is 7.5" long, which is entirely possible and I'm not questioning, the proportions don't seem to indicate 7" girth. And DeeDee, the girth of your husband's penis isn't really relevant unless we were to see a side by side measurement comparison.

    Extraordinary claims require extraordinary proof.
     
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    I can easily see girth being a problem. I don't see it, but I'm told that I'm thicker than average. I'm far from huge, but I've encountered more teeth than I've ever wanted to experience. I also once was chatting with a friend that I'd messed around with a bit, and he said something about wanting to try bottoming, and I thought that he was hinting that I should top him. When I said that I wasn't really 100% sold on the idea of topping, he shot back, "Don't worry. It wouldn't be you."
    I just said, "Wow... thanks!"
    "No. You're too thick. Even if it fit, I'm not into pain. I don't think I could enjoy it. It'd have to be someone smaller, or at least thinner."

    There was also a thread here a while back, about guys not liking any tightness. They wanted someone loose, so that either they could just plunge right in, or because they were sensitive to it in a way that they felt strangled. On the other hand, some people love being thick just because they do get off on that stranglehold.

    To the OP. I think you have your answer in your own last line. I'm sure you'd still much rather be you, than the guy that hears, "Is it in yet?", or "Oh, that's all of it?" :wink:
     
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    You are 100% correct....it's not complicated to prove what you are claiming is true with a measuring tape and a photo. Looks to me like you are exaggerating length and girth.

     
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    No. Not at all. In fact, just the opposite. My cock paid for my education. My homes. My travels. Yea for my big cock. But I do understand what you mean though. But you cannot change it, enjoy it.
     
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