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Hey guys. Have any of you ever experienced a ruined orgasm (either by yourself or with a partner)? I came across it last night while watching porn (of course) and I’m intrigued by it.
 

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In my experience, it's not all that unusual. For solo sex, all it takes is the phone ringing or a knock on the door to derail an orgasm that's seconds away. For partnered sex, a comment from your partner like "are you ever going to cum?" will do it. An orgasm, I believe by evolutionary "design" of the male psyche, is a very delicate thing - especially in the brief "ejaculatory inevitability" stage.
 

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Hey guys. Have any of you ever experienced a ruined orgasm (either by yourself or with a partner)? I came across it last night while watching porn (of course) and I’m intrigued by it.
Guess you might have a suppressed desire for submission, if you're intrigued by ruined orgasm?

I have a number of sex friends who love that sense of loss of control (of their own pleasure). Fact that I'm very good at edging makes it an explosive combination once I tie them up in bed, and have them edged senseless. (It takes a very good dom to dose the stimulation to get you off the edge - finally - but stop the stimulation just in time to frustate the hell out of the sub)

You should see the face of the guy, when he finally got to empty his exploding prostate with zero stimulation. Frustrated, sure, but the look of release... :rolleyes:
Take a look at this from minute 21 onwards, to see if this gets you hard.
Slow Teasing Handjobs - Left Handed Handjob.avi
 

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Yes and it does ruin the pleasure. I was with two women and they were younger and kind of nutty. In fact, after the 3 of us were in bed, one revealed she was in the early months of pregnancy and felt I might be too long and somehow risk things. The other one I think was more into her friend. Anyway, instead they decided they were going to have fun by simply jacking me off together. I kind of recall thinking I should head out of there as they were like I said kind of goofy acting and I was thinking how did I get myself with these two characters. Well, they already had my cock in their hands and one more than the other started jacking me off. Too late, it was feeling really good and the one doing most of the work was talking to the other with them both commenting on my size. I was just at the point of exploding and just at that exact moment they let go. Instead of shooting out my sperm just like dribbled and they both laughed hysterically. It did not feel good to orgasm in that way, like you are building and building and then it just fizzles. Retrospectively, I do think they did this on purpose and as I said they were two strange type of women to begin with. I left wanting to kick myself in the ass for not trusting my gut feeling to begin with. And, yes it really feels lousy a ruined orgasm and that lasts all day.
 

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I find having a ruined orgasm helpful for edging. If I stop touching my dick just as I’m about to cum and squeeze out whatever cum has come up, I can start again immediately. No need for a cool down period
 

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milking, vibrator or even hands free a couple of times. very nice feeling!

Your dominatrix has been very kind to you?
Milking a full prostate is not supposed to give you orgasm, but a frustrating sensation of watching your man juice wasted in a glass, and not orgasm... :imp:
 

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Your dominatrix has been very kind to you?
Milking a full prostate is not supposed to give you orgasm, but a frustrating sensation of watching your man juice wasted in a glass, and not orgasm... :imp:


You are so right @accidenttourist , but i do not have a mistress. so i order my wife to play with me the way we like! juice is not wasted either, i don't let it!
 

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It can be kind of fun, I mean its essentially going a little bit past edging. The way I do it, some cum comes out, but i don't have t he sensation of an orgasm, so I can just keep cumming many times. I had a bang buddy of mine suck me off, and every time I got close I just let the cum out onto her, and on the 5th one I had an insane orgasm. Her face and tits were covered after.
 

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Your dominatrix has been very kind to you?
Milking a full prostate is not supposed to give you orgasm, but a frustrating sensation of watching your man juice wasted in a glass, and not orgasm... :imp:
it is the goal of edging ritual to frustrate the totally naked masculine body many hours or days. each totally unsatisfying partial ejaculation , when the complete naked male body is forced to stopp sperm flow some milliseconds before PONR , the male body gets deeper and deeper into edging ritual and gets toatlly addicted to this practice.
 
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I find having a ruined orgasm helpful for edging. If I stop touching my dick just as I’m about to cum and squeeze out whatever cum has come up, I can start again immediately. No need for a cool down period
ruined orgasms are the main part , when I force the totally naked masculine body to practice 57 totally unsatisfying leaking sperm releases without any real orgasm and without any relief of tension and and sperm pressure . the entire male body gets into submission under edging ritual.
 
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