Just a little off topic side bar, Giovanni...
If some of us come across as being a bit harsh, there's some pretty valid reasons. LSPG is a male dominated environment, populated by primarily by men who are heavily into porn. This can create an environment that is not that female friendly. The women who survive here are women who enjoy sex, probably have had a lot of it, either with lots of partners or with very well endowed partners. We tend to know what we're talking about and give pretty good advice. We're a pretty bright group,
The women of LPSG that survive the forums for longer than a year have had to put up with some massive shit. Forget about all the unsolicited pictures and messages that roll in all the time. Not only do we get asked the same questions all the time, we get called names, are the targets of hatred and misogyny and are expected many times to behave like cam girls. Guys ask questions so they can jerk off to our responses and get angry when we won't play.
It makes a woman toughen up. So when you appear to reject our opinion, you won't get much sympathy. When you make statements like you just did, you just reconfirmed that when a woman doesn't answer the way you want - you're going to attack her sexuality.
We are actually very nice. Funny. Worth getting to know and learning from.
I just thought I'd put this out there. It's not just for you.