Sadness and size

[curioustitan]

I agree with every bit of advice on this thread and especially with maxcock... about that gf being a bitch.... Don't let her ruin you for someone else that can truly love and appreciate you.
As for the size issue....there are techniques and medical procedures that can alter or circumvent this problem (BUT ONLY AS A LAST RESORT). Physical alteration for this reason is something i would never advocate, but you should be aware of your options.
The best alteration you could make though, is to your confidence and train of thought...."size matters not" (Thanks yoda)
You are a beautiful human being!!!!!!

"i love sam_solo26" regardless of his size.....

 

[DeepDish]

anyway the one relationship she kept running back to, her HS boyfriend had a 9 inch dick...and im pretty sure that it probably 6 inch girth

A couple of things.

1. A legit 9 x 6 is pretty damn rare. For the most part women are not very good at estimating the size of objects. See this thread, for example:

http://www.lpsg.org/201746-every-woman-should-be-issued.html

Example post from that thread:

I am an honest 7" and have been told more than once I must be 9. I always set them straight and if necessary get the ruler out lol...All the 6ers must be claiming 8...

2. Why are you talking with a woman about the size of an ex boyfriend's dick?

Did you bring it up? DON'T DO THAT AGAIN, EVER.

Did she bring it up? If so you've got to ask yourself why. Pretty tacky if you ask me. Question: Have you ever said any of this to a woman:

"My ex had a tighter pussy than yours."
"My ex had the most beautiful labia, not like yours"

If you ever said any of that kind of stuff, most people would think you were a nasty person trying to make your current girlfriend feel bad. And that you were a huge jerk.

 

[DeepDish]

This link on size anxiety gives some good advice:

3 Tips for Size Anxiety

#3 especially.

 

[glowfish]

You want to know a little secret? The reasons big dicks have power in the world is because of reactions from other men, not because of women. If you feel sad, the big dicks win!

 

[punkboi26]

Goodness...this thread makes me wanna cry =,{ For one good reason. Though I probably should have checked to see if you like guys or not because I think it may be different than when it's with a woman. I'm what some of us gay guys call a "pureblood" gay as I havent been with a woman so I can offer no advice there. I can say that from what I have heard from my female friends that they mostly care about how much attention you pay to their clit and whether or not your penis is thin. They have told me that length tends to be unimportant. There are size queens for both sexes but those tend be more interested in the aesthetics and the idea of a big dick rather than what they really get from it. Honestly, for me atleast, I prefer avergar cock size when it comes to actually having sex. I mean most gay men just need it to be big enough to get to their prostate. I also agree with {DeepDish} about how many people for both sexes tend to get the size wrong judging by eye. I can also tell you that 99.99999% of the time you are not going to have your partner pull out a ruler and totally ruin the mood with it. I'd like to add that I was also in the Navy and maybe 2 out of 80 guys in my compartment had a notable "big cock". Incidently they were both white guys as I tire of the universal idea that white guys are small and black guys are all big. Most of the black guys in my compartment were average with a few being on the smaller side. Sorry....got distracted... I just wish I could take away all the sadness that you feel about this. I take pride in the fact that I have been quite eager in my day to give even more attention to the "smaller" guys out there and to have made them feel proud to have what they've got. I know this reply is way drawn out but I just hope something good is taken from it. *Big hugz* :smile:

I was going to call this thread "why me". But it was too teen angst and dramatic. I recently re-joined the gym at my office after a few years and I noticed how very hung quite a few ofbthe guys were in the showers. It hit me (again) how sad my small size makes me. My cock doesn't really bulge or have any weight to it. It almost as my penis is not mine. It's hard to explain.

So why post this. Catharsis perhaps. I don't know. I imagine when looking at the galleries on this site how great it must be to be hung. To be able to have some sense in space of the size and weight of your large cocks.

I'm going to stop as I don't want to sound whiney. It is what it is, I know but it's sad.

 

[tttstimulate]

and the scary part about that girl is...im a 6x6....not even small in terms of i guess whole population

i know i should just be happy...i honestly want to...
i have a history of manic depressive behavior...ie being 'bipolar'
mood swings, extreme happiness to extreme depression...
im sure that plays a part

but i mean...heres a kid that was bigger and better..always lasted, always got hard as fuck...and could even keep going after cumming..never had any issues with premature ejaculation or size issues or anything
and then theres me...a 6x6 (makes it look smaller with all that girth) compared to his 9x6..and i cumm too fast fairly often and have issues with maintaining erections and all that

just must be fucking nice to be one of those ppl lol

but im trying.. i dont wanna just feel bad for myself anymore...i have been doing kegels and just trying to look at it as best i can

i'm really working on being better and jut trying to 'not give a fuck' like i used to and just be more myself...i really appreciate those '3 tips for size anxiety'

im gunna try and implement it as best i can...although 'bulletproof' sexual confidence seems hard...i would love it thought
being able to last every single time...and be able to go real hard...

idk its just that she really cut me deep with all the shit i found out about her past...makes me feel really fucking inadequate in almost every aspect of sex


i know one day itll all be fine and good and i wont think about this even in passing

 

[maxcok]

^ Dude, I repeat:

She's a bitch. Dump her and get a girl who appreciates you.

You'll feel much better about yourself and your dick too.

Unless of course you're a masochist, and you enjoy being humiliated and obsessing over your "inadequacies".

 

[alwayshornyatl]

And, the important point to remember is that many of the posters here have taken photos that truly "overstate their case" if you get my drift. There's been one post here of a photo of a 17" inch. Look at the photo. It's a man standing and there's a yardstick on the floor. The comparisons are sometimes just plain silly.

As to reactions from other partners, I love a big dick. Love to watch it, play with it, force it down my throat (Usually it doesn't have to be forced. I'm eager.) That said, what really turns me on in a man is his passion. Big dick is one thing, but a big sex drive is what makes the sex hot. When you can tell he's really turned ON is always the mind-blowing sex, regardless (and I mean regardless) of dick size.

 

[wallyj84]

I can relate to the sadness stuff.

I had sex yesterday and felt extremely inadequate throughout the whole experience. Especially when I tried to do doggy style and found that I was too short for that position.

From my experience penis size matters a lot and if you don't have it, you just don't have it. There's no surgical technique or pill that will fix you. You just have to accept this failing and understand the limits this places on your life and relationships. Hopefully you have success in other areas that will give you a sense of accomplishment and worth.

 

[maxcok]

And, the important point to remember is that many of the posters here have taken photos that truly "overstate their case" if you get my drift. There's been one post here of a photo of a 17" inch. Look at the photo. It's a man standing and there's a yardstick on the floor. The comparisons are sometimes just plain silly.

Yeah, go back and look at that again and read some of the responses.

That thread is pure satire, and by extension an LPSG intelligence test.

Just sayin . . .

 

[mattsrod7]

think of the guy you took it from, think how sad he is now

 

[richardfitswell]

Sorry to repeat what as already been said and later quoted: dump the bitch. She is fucking with your head. There is no other reason for why she would make you feel so bad about your body. If she cared a shred about you, she wouldn't have said any of the things she said to you.

You have girth that most men would kill for, and there are exercises you can do to make yourself longer. Just google thundersplace, they don't sell anything. I have gained over half an inch in length over the last 2 years with essentially NO dedication, doing the exercises more or less when I felt like it, with months long breaks between. If I stayed dedicated it would probably be an inch bigger than it is now. Pills and creams don't work, but manual PE works, slowly, but surely.

Dump the bitch, get a decent woman who cares about you, not just your dick, and more importantly, one who won't play mind games with you.

 

[earllogjam]

Some of the worst sex I've had was with guys with 8+ dicks. Not everyone is a fan of huge cocks, kid. And you don't need one for great pleasurable sex IMO.

Besides why worry about something you can't change. It's like worrying about the weather or why you were born with red hair. Waste-O-Time.

 

[B_RedDude]

Hey, watch it, buddy!:smile:

It's like worrying about the weather or why you were born with red hair. Waste-O-Time.

 

[B_RedDude]

If you're that upset about it on an ongoing basis, why don't you try some legitimate penis enlargement exercises (safely).

Thunder's Place (don't know the URL off hand) is a site where they talk about and give instructions for penis enlargement exercises, etc.

I think measurection.com is a support site, sort of like this one, but for guys who feel underendowed. You might want to check it out.

Thanks to all for the kind words. The above from red makes a lot of sense. In fact, you all do. I am small. It's not an angle thing. I wish it was. I have not measured in a while but when small I think it's about 3 or 4 inches and with a tiny girth. It looks odd against my frame and I just think it would be great to have some sensation if having a bigger, thicker dick. I realise this is not something I'll just wake up with so there's not much I can do.

 

[D_Hammond Happydipper]

I was going to call this thread "why me". But it was too teen angst and dramatic. I recently re-joined the gym at my office after a few years and I noticed how very hung quite a few ofbthe guys were in the showers. It hit me (again) how sad my small size makes me. My cock doesn't really bulge or have any weight to it. It almost as my penis is not mine. It's hard to explain.

So why post this. Catharsis perhaps. I don't know. I imagine when looking at the galleries on this site how great it must be to be hung. To be able to have some sense in space of the size and weight of your large cocks.

I'm going to stop as I don't want to sound whiney. It is what it is, I know but it's sad.

hey at least you have one lot of people had theirs amputated

 

[THEDUDEofDestiny]

my cock hags small but grows considerably. so just think about how they guys you see that look your size could be a lot larger than you as well

 

[D_Hammond Happydipper]

my cock hags small but grows considerably. so just think about how they guys you see that look your size could be a lot larger than you as well

true


my is only 3.5"soft 5inch girth soft if you do not believe me see for your self
http://www.lpsg.org/201183-post-your-cock-on-a-2.html#post2987917


it's not like you could even tell what size it is tell it grows

 

[haunted_beehive]

Hi everyone. Sorry for not replying sooner. Thanks so much for the support. It has been really interesting and I've learnt a lot. I'll be honest though I won't say my attitude has radically shifted from when I first started this thread but I know you would not expect that.

I'm small and it's annoying and I guess some days, weeks or months I will be more bothered by it. My partners have never commented on it but I'm not sure why.....

I'm going to think more about some of the replies and post something more detailed soon.

 

[B_RedDude]

Maybe because they didn't think it was a problem and that they were more interested in the person attached to the cock than the cock itself?

My partners have never commented on it but I'm not sure why.....