Same sex oral.

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  1. Drifterwood

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    I was discussing this with a friend the other day.

    She felt that it was not so much of a big deal for a str8 woman to get a blow job from another woman as it would be for a str8 guy to get a blow job from another guy.

    What do you think?
     
  2. Mr. Snakey

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    Its a matter of taste.
     
  3. Drifterwood

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    I hope you can hear my groan from literally the other side of the planet. :rolleyes::smile:
     
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    I wasn't aware that women got blow jobs.

    I think it's properly called cunnilingus, going down on, or being eaten out or something.

     
  5. Mr. Snakey

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    A groan you say? Am i being toung and cheek? Yes straight women giving head is ok. Straight mean giving head is frowned upon. Also if they are giving eachother head. I ask how straight are they? Then again a mouth is a mouth.
     
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    I think you must be incredibly bored over there in Beijing. :tongue:

    However to answer your question, assuming you mean cunnilingus from another girl, I think it's a big deal either way.
     
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    Fur balls and a sore jaw. Hey isnt life wonderful.
     
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    Ummmmmm, oral sex on a woman is a "blow job"? I know in England, they call pussies "fannies", but oral sex on a woman is a blow job? Oral sex on a woman is cunnilingus.
     
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    women can be gay and not really be gay
     
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    :wtf: That is :bsflag:
     
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    I would think the opposite, it isnt as big a deal for a man to blow a man. Going down on a woman seems like a much more intimate thing.

    It just seems that it is less of a deal for women because men are meant to be masculine and having anything to do with another mans cock is taboo
     
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    I agree, Lee.

    But what about being on the receiving end?
     
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    I don't really differentiate between sex with a woman or sex with a man - it's all sex.
     
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    Good point. Personally i really want to go down on a woman but im am apprehensive about a woman going down on me. And honestly, i cant explain why that is because im not the slightest bit concerned with being labeled gay or what society deems acceptable. Maybe i am just more aware that women are much more judgmental or my girly bits
     
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    Ahhh, but a question.

    What happens if you get a blowjob from a Blowup doll of the same sex? Does that make you Gay?
     
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    No but you might need to make a trip to the shop to buy a puncture repair kit
     
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    My point being that if you took a porn of two women performing this sex act it wouldnt be a big deal. Take two men in the same porn doing the same thing and the reaction would be very different.
     
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    Got something you want to share with us Drifterwood?
     
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    I took a friend though her first experience of MFF, I held her hand and cuddled her as she experienced a woman going down on her for the first time.

    We had a post match talk :rolleyes:

    I'm getting there :cool:

    Fuck, I've been just about everywhere else, Baaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh :tongue:
     
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    Like anything, I guess it's all how the individual feels about it. I would lean towards agreeing with your friend. I go back and forth with myself whether I am heterosexual who likes fantasizing about being with women to being bisexual but still preferring men. I've been with 2 women where we gave each other oral sex. I enjoyed it, but I don't think it changed anything about how I feel about men and women - I still prefer men. I look at it as an "exploring my sexuality" thing. I don't think it changes who I am, but it might bother someone I am with. On the other hand, if I had a boyfriend tell me he did the exact same thing with a guy, I would be bothered by it a bit. Hypocritical, yes. Simply because in my experience, straight men just don't think that way about other men. So if they do, then maybe they really aren't into women. I know that is just perpetuing the stigma, but that's just been my experience. It's more acceptable for a straight woman to be with another woman than a straight man with another man. Wrong or right that's my perception.
    But I would be more open-minded to what he had to tell me about it because of my own experiences.
     
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