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I love going to the gym, and the best part is the sauna after. Most days I spend anywhere from 30 min to an hour in the sauna. I always go naked (sit on a towel) as I refuse to wear clothes in the sauna.
I love relaxing, sweating, and recovering; and that’s it. I’m not into “playing” or sexual activity there. I’m not opposed to other people doing it (even if I’m in there) but it’s not what I’m there for.
Therein lies my problem/question. I’m a pretty fit guy with a nice dick sitting naked in the sauna. Many guys seem to take this as a “signal” or invitation for more. I find that I’m constantly being cruised there. While the attention is flattering- it sometimes gets awkward… with guys grabbing themselves or sending signals constantly.
My question (to you guys who cruise) is how do I politely let them know that I’m not interested without embarrassing anyone?
Usually when it’s just the two of us, I will just say “I don’t want to waste your time, I’m not interested in playing” or something along those lines. The challenge being that sometimes they have invested a significant amount of time waiting for the crowd to clear out before I get this chance- and I don’t want to come across as a tease or a troll.
I love relaxing, sweating, and recovering; and that’s it. I’m not into “playing” or sexual activity there. I’m not opposed to other people doing it (even if I’m in there) but it’s not what I’m there for.
Therein lies my problem/question. I’m a pretty fit guy with a nice dick sitting naked in the sauna. Many guys seem to take this as a “signal” or invitation for more. I find that I’m constantly being cruised there. While the attention is flattering- it sometimes gets awkward… with guys grabbing themselves or sending signals constantly.
My question (to you guys who cruise) is how do I politely let them know that I’m not interested without embarrassing anyone?
Usually when it’s just the two of us, I will just say “I don’t want to waste your time, I’m not interested in playing” or something along those lines. The challenge being that sometimes they have invested a significant amount of time waiting for the crowd to clear out before I get this chance- and I don’t want to come across as a tease or a troll.