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I love going to the gym, and the best part is the sauna after. Most days I spend anywhere from 30 min to an hour in the sauna. I always go naked (sit on a towel) as I refuse to wear clothes in the sauna.

I love relaxing, sweating, and recovering; and that’s it. I’m not into “playing” or sexual activity there. I’m not opposed to other people doing it (even if I’m in there) but it’s not what I’m there for.

Therein lies my problem/question. I’m a pretty fit guy with a nice dick sitting naked in the sauna. Many guys seem to take this as a “signal” or invitation for more. I find that I’m constantly being cruised there. While the attention is flattering- it sometimes gets awkward… with guys grabbing themselves or sending signals constantly.

My question (to you guys who cruise) is how do I politely let them know that I’m not interested without embarrassing anyone?
Usually when it’s just the two of us, I will just say “I don’t want to waste your time, I’m not interested in playing” or something along those lines. The challenge being that sometimes they have invested a significant amount of time waiting for the crowd to clear out before I get this chance- and I don’t want to come across as a tease or a troll.
 

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I love going to the gym, and the best part is the sauna after. Most days I spend anywhere from 30 min to an hour in the sauna. I always go naked (sit on a towel) as I refuse to wear clothes in the sauna.

I love relaxing, sweating, and recovering; and that’s it. I’m not into “playing” or sexual activity there. I’m not opposed to other people doing it (even if I’m in there) but it’s not what I’m there for.

Therein lies my problem/question. I’m a pretty fit guy with a nice dick sitting naked in the sauna. Many guys seem to take this as a “signal” or invitation for more. I find that I’m constantly being cruised there. While the attention is flattering- it sometimes gets awkward… with guys grabbing themselves or sending signals constantly.

My question (to you guys who cruise) is how do I politely let them know that I’m not interested without embarrassing anyone?
Usually when it’s just the two of us, I will just say “I don’t want to waste your time, I’m not interested in playing” or something along those lines. The challenge being that sometimes they have invested a significant amount of time waiting for the crowd to clear out before I get this chance- and I don’t want to come across as a tease or a troll.
Cover your dick with a towel
 

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I love going to the gym, and the best part is the sauna after. Most days I spend anywhere from 30 min to an hour in the sauna. I always go naked (sit on a towel) as I refuse to wear clothes in the sauna.

I love relaxing, sweating, and recovering; and that’s it. I’m not into “playing” or sexual activity there. I’m not opposed to other people doing it (even if I’m in there) but it’s not what I’m there for.

Therein lies my problem/question. I’m a pretty fit guy with a nice dick sitting naked in the sauna. Many guys seem to take this as a “signal” or invitation for more. I find that I’m constantly being cruised there. While the attention is flattering- it sometimes gets awkward… with guys grabbing themselves or sending signals constantly.

My question (to you guys who cruise) is how do I politely let them know that I’m not interested without embarrassing anyone?
Usually when it’s just the two of us, I will just say “I don’t want to waste your time, I’m not interested in playing” or something along those lines. The challenge being that sometimes they have invested a significant amount of time waiting for the crowd to clear out before I get this chance- and I don’t want to come across as a tease or a troll.
Just tell them to piss off that is what i do to the creeps on the nudist beach
 

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Cover your dick with a towel
I could, but it’s uncomfortable…

And I don’t feel like there is anything wrong with a dick showing- to cover it makes it feel like hiding…..

Besides, based on all the other guys cruising in towels or even shorts- I doubt it would change anything
 
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Yeah, maybe I’m just to concerned about making a scene
Devil’s advocate here:

Maybe you do enjoy the attention..?

People who are really uncomfortable getting advances have no problem telling off creeps. Even to the extent of going to management to report about constantly getting harassed at the sauna. They are in the right to do that.

There’s nothing wrong with enjoying the attention even if you’re not sexually interested. You just need to decide for yourself if this is what you enjoy. If it is, then simply raising your hand and showing your palm to guys will give them the message that you’re not interested.
 

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There are a few old creepy guys at my gym that really make me uncomfortable because they are so blatant in their staring, so when I see them coming I just pack up & go.
If a younger guy cruises me, I usually take it as a compliment regardless if anything happens
 

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Devil’s advocate here:

Maybe you do enjoy the attention..?

People who are really uncomfortable getting advances have no problem telling off creeps. Even to the extent of going to management to report about constantly getting harassed at the sauna. They are in the right to do that.

There’s nothing wrong with enjoying the attention even if you’re not sexually interested. You just need to decide for yourself if this is what you enjoy. If it is, then simply raising your hand and showing your palm to guys will give them the message that you’re not interested.
I definitely got that impression as well. I think that’s pretty normal feeling. I honestly love it when guys watch me shower at the gym
 

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If I see a creepy man in a sauna, who is interested, but doesn't get the hint that I not, I smile, and, tell him that I am a mortician, who is in town for a conference.

Then I adopt a more sexual tone to my voice, and, ask if he has ever done it in a coffin, the back of a hearse, a morgue or a cemetery. I ask if he has even taken an ice-cold shower, and, covered himself in white powder, and, laid perfectly still on a bed for lovemaking.

That usually works.
 

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Devil’s advocate here:

Maybe you do enjoy the attention..?

People who are really uncomfortable getting advances have no problem telling off creeps. Even to the extent of going to management to report about constantly getting harassed at the sauna. They are in the right to do that.

There’s nothing wrong with enjoying the attention even if you’re not sexually interested. You just need to decide for yourself if this is what you enjoy. If it is, then simply raising your hand and showing your palm to guys will give them the message that you’re not interested.
Hard disagree with this first part. Some people don’t want conflict or, like op says, don’t mind but don’t want to mislead or embarrass anyone because they’re not interested in engaging in any activity. That’s completely legit. The hand up advice I agree with.
 

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Does anyone have a link where a black guy was filming and talking with 2 other dudes and then they eventually jerked off in the sauna?
that is eddiebigd...there is a thread with those vids and that is posted all over the internet. Super easy vid to find.
 

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I get where you are coming from and it’s the same with me. At the gym there is a sauna and a hot tub and I love having a good soak after a workout. I usually cover myself with a towel when I’m in the sauna, but in the hot tub, I just go in nude. Again, I don’t mind if guys want to check me out (won’t lie, it’s flattering), but I do get pissed off when some people don’t get the hint that I’m not interested. As I don’t want to make a scene, I just usually cut short my time and just leave which sucks.
 
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