Saunas at the Gym....

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  1. cltpilot

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    Ok, to continue to the gym theme.

    Have you ever walked in on someone who may have been jacking off in the sauna or may have been a little excited?

    I believe I have, and it is a little akward....

    I am sure you all have thoughts on this so let's hear em.....
     
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    My bf and I were showering at the gym and we purposely had the stalls diagonally from each other so we wouldn't get creepies in the opposite watching us the whole time...HOWEVER, this one BRAVE troll comes up and stands in the middle of the two showers and starts tugging...looking over at me...then him. We both tried to ignore it and maybe he's go away, he didn't. So I had to finally say something to him and he left and was gone from the gym before we got out. Stuff like this seemed to happen a lot at this seemingly straight gym. So we quit and went to a new gym. :)
     
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    I know a guy who is 6'9" over 300 lbs. He is a giant. He used to go to the Y and would catch guys showering in swimsuits wanking while watching him. I thought are you peeps crazy. If he got mad, he could throw you across the room.
     
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    LOL, seriously, probably not the smartest thing to be doing.
     
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    Never caught anyone masturbating in the sauna, but I did have an old man trying to hit on me (sexually) in a sauna once. I was 19 at the time, and I'm guessing he was somewhere in his 60's. Totally wanted to hook up with me, but I told him I was 17. When I decided to leave the sauna, he was right behind me, and as I opened the door, he actually rubbed on my speedo-covered butt for a few seconds. :eek: I didn't complain or make him stop though, cuz I kinda felt bad for rejecting this guy. I at least let him give my speedos a little rub to remember me by. :biggrin1:
     
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    hahaha the exact same thing happened to me once in the sauna. i also let him feel my ass as i was opening the door. gee, maybe when im 60 i'll be that desperate pervert in the sauna wanting a fresh 17 year old ass. lol
     
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    I use to go to Crunch in north Atlanta and there was ALWAYS something happening in the showers, the sauna or steam room. And no one seemed to care (well almost no one) from time to time a worker would slowly walk through just patrolling I guess.
     
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    When I was 16 or so, a friend and I use to sneak into the golf resort up the road from us, and use their pools and stuff. One time we were both horny and we were fucking around in the pool, grabbing each others crotches and everything. So we decided we'd hit the sauna... knowing what would go down in there. There wasn't anyone in there, so we took out our cocks and started blowing each other. Ended up doing a 69er laying on the benches.

    It was a quiet day, so I think there was only one person who came into the bathrooms and walked by, but we heard them, so we had time to act normal...

    We blew our loads all over the benches and left. Good times, we still talk about it here and there, thinking how crazy we were, and how easily caught we could have been if we didn't hear someone come in the bathrooms. but it was exciting.
     
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    As a general rule, I've only ever been hit on by older guys. I never liked it, but when I was younger I tolerated it, or even went along with it a little bit, just as you guys did, because I felt sorry for the guys or because I wanted to be nice. But I never felt good about it. It always made me feel uncomfortable, even kind of sick. I think its terrible that young gay men seem to feel some sort of obligation to be nice and polite and to tolerate these sorts of violations of their bodies. In the future I would encourage you both to firmly say "No" or "stop it"--do whatever it takes to establish some clear boundaries. Don't worry that you're being impolite or disrespectful. It's not rude to forbid someone to touch you; its your right and you need to stand up for it. It is rude to grope someone who has told you they are not interested.

    About a year ago and older guy was "stalking" me around the local gay bar. I made the mistake of being polite at first, then I tried actively avoiding him (e.g., staying out of his site, leaving the room if I saw him coming, etc.). One day when I was trying to talk to someone else he threw a jealous fit which was...bizarre. I finally lost my temper (which doesn't happen easily) and shouted something to the effect of "leave me alone you sick freak." Actually, I think it was nastier than that. If I had been firm with him from the beginning, maybe things wouldn't have gotten to that point. Fortunately, I haven't run into him since.

    I worry about becoming that sort of person, too. Sometimes I think I'm halfway there already. 17 is a bit young for me, but I'm still attracted to guys in their 20s, even though I'm too old for them and they're too young for me. When I go to the local gay bar, those are the guys I'm checking out, because there aren't many men my age around, and the ones who are are a bunch of pathetic losers (like me).
     
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    My gym requires you to wear a swimsuit in the sauna for exactly this reason. People being explicitly sexual ruining it for everyone else. :(
     
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    Being an older guy, to put it mildly, this thread is slightly uncomfortable. When I was younger I was attracted to older men, much older, so that was great. Now, when in the steamroom at the gym, I get as horny as I ever did, but I wait to see how the other man (or men) are reacting. More often than not, I get some action - having a big dick and being well-built and reasonably attractive helps, I guess. But ageism so so fucking prevalent it kinda makes me sick. I really try to make my decisions on whether or not to reciprocate on factors other than age (oddly, I am more likely to choose the older, possibly less attractive guy, especially if the younger one appears to have an attitude - something I sense among some of the other posters here).
     
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    When I was younger I recall being aggressively cruised by much older men regularly. I've never been too hung-up on age so if the man was nice and what I considered attractive or sexy I welcomed it but all to often they weren't. Now I'm one of those old guys. Remembering how I felt when I was young, I may look and admire, I never approach anyone younger. If they're interested I let them make the first move.
     
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    When you walked into the gym I used to go to, which is a VERY mainstream gym in the Columbus Circle area of Manhattan, it was like seeing a gay porn every time you opened the door to the sauna. After numerous complaints, I just joined a private gym.
     
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    This is an interesting thread. I guess, in some respects, your perspective changes and is influenced by your age. Today I might be considered one of those 'old guys' in this thread.

    I used to attend a gym when I was in my 20's (about 25 years ago) which had both a steam bath type sauna and a hot dry eukalyptus room.

    I was in good shape and worked out regularly (no middle age paunch like today):smile:.

    I didn't usually 'hang out' in the steam room but liked the eukalyptus room -- the hot air with the slight menthal smell made me feel good on a cold winter day.

    One day, after a good workout, I walked into the eukalyptus room. two well built guys were standing with semi-erections. One guy, I had seen before, was hung like a horse. He was circumcized and had a mushroom head that looked just like mine only about a third bigger...I still fantasize about having one that big to service the ladies. The other guy was muscular but not particularly hung.

    I was obviously interupting something. I guess three's a crowd... After I entered the room they both left.

    I was curious ... so I went out of the eukalyptus room but didn't see them in the change room. I decided to check out the sauna. I felt a little uncomfortable... i guess i was stocking them...

    Anyway, I couldn't see anything in the very steamy steam room, but I could hear them ... I didn't stick around. But, now that you remind me of this experience, maybe I should write a hot erotic story in the fictitious stories section...:biggrin1:
     
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    As you can tell, I haven't seen everything yet.
     
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    I wrote a rather long-winded reply. Since it is off-topic to this thread, I started a new thread.

    http://www.lpsg.org/95624-ageism.html#post1610053
     
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    My bad... I thought the title said "Santa's at the gym"
     
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    mine does too now..and flip flops...due that that shit and MRSA :mad:
     
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    I'd wear flipflops anyways. I don't want a foot fungus. I'd prefer a towel to a swimsuit. Perverts causing misery for other peeps. :mad:
     
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    Swimsuits are required at my main club. The "wet" area is co-ed.

    Intriguingly, at those clubs where the sauna is located within the men's lockerroom and therefore clothing optional, many guys wear their full street regalia when using the sauna, shoes, socks and all.

    We live in very exciting times indeed.
     
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