I am thinking that it is and can lead to a lot of misery, but I would be interested in other people's views.
Lordpendragon said:I am thinking that it is and can lead to a lot of misery, but I would be interested in other people's views.
ClaireTalon said:Okay, let's say a woman vows to save herself for a man whom she thinks is great. Now let's go on, and say she thinks she meets this guy, and has sex with him because she thinks he is THE ONE. And now let's go on some more, and say he has deceived her, and they separate. I guess then she has made a big mistake, in compliance with her vows, but has only had a shitload of bad luck. That's why I'd not save myself for someone who might possibly be out there.