Why Young Men Delay Adulthood to Stay in "Guyland" | Newsweek Culture | Newsweek.com Very interesting article, and not suprising in the least, at least to me it isn't. More and more young men are seeing just how powerless we really are when it comes to monogamous relationships and marriage, and are doing everything possible to avoid it; seeing it as little more than a trap. Just curious as to the womens' opinions on this. I'm 30, and kind can of see it in my generation, but it seems to be well engrained in the majority of 20-somethings now. Is (was) male redundancy something that could have been avoided with the rise of the womens' rights movement? Do women have any right to even complain that men are like this now? Or is it a reap what you sow type deal.