Saying No To A Big Cock.

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I can definitely imagine this happening, if it seemed like it was going to be really uncomfortable. However, I think "extreme" sizes are probably much, much rarer than this site would have you believe, so I'm guessing the phenomenon of someone being turned down due to it being too big is similarly rare.
 

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Three stories from my Freshman year of college.

1. Dorms, drinking, start making out with a girl on my friends bed, my friends leave the room for us. She is moist over her clothes and I'm raging hard in my jeans. She reaches down, feels my bulge, traces it with her fingers, and squeezes it, looking startled and unsure, she stopped. Kissing ended, she was done. That one wasn't that fun. She then proceeded to tell her Gay best friend who then never stopped bugging me that year.

2. Made friends with this attractive girl, she was a bit promiscuous and one night when she was drunk she confessed to me that she could deepthroat, and her ex had an eight inch dick. Later she admitted that she had exaggerated to me because she had a crush on me and that was part of her way of showing off. We became closer and eventually kissed, on night we were chatting online and penis size came up, I admitted that my ex was very petite and that fitting me caused problems often for her, she admitted that her ex was not really eight inches big, and then begged me to tell her my size. When she found out that I really was as big as what she claimed her ex to be she was stunned and it seemed to turn her on. Time went by, she later turned into a huge drama queen and I stopped talking to her, one night a few months later I was talking to her friend. Talking about that girl, (we'll call her amanda) the friend said in passing, "Yea she was scared off by your dick", I was shocked and questioned the friend even more, she finally admitted, "Well she told me about you, you didn't know that you scared her off because your dick was too bigg?"

3. That summer I reconnected with my old ex, the very petite one. She had the most trouble accommodating my dick.More than once, we would be going at it, I would be inside of her, she would usually get off within the first 3-5 minutes, then again after about 10, and if I took more than about 12-15 minutes to cum, she would have to stop me because it became too painful for her, "You're rubbing me raw." She would say, usually with tears in her eyes.

Sometimes she felt soo bad for having to stop she would try to keep going, and tell me to just keep fucking her, she would place a pillow over her face to cover her expression because she was in too much pain but wanted me to finish. Those occasions weren't too fun.

I will admit that the routine of going to the kitchen to get her advil and an ice pack every time after we had sex was a confidence booster in a twisted way, and even more fun when her roomates learned why I would always go get them for her...
 

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Yes I was turned down twice in the space of a month by two different girls who both had eagerly torn my pants off. One was Japanese, the other Chinese. Very petite and sexy. Both were shocked when they saw what tumbled out of my boxers! That just about ended my brief infatuation with Asian women. (I did get a great hand-job from one of them, though). Lol
 

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im only 7x6, I always thought girls loved big dicks because they always came back begging saying that I have a huge dick.
Three months ago I went to go take my first virgin, and I couldnt get it in. We tried quite a few times that night and no matter what I couldnt get it in.

I always wanted to be bigger, but that night made me think im too big :(
I can see how some girls would run from a larger cock.
 
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There's an old fairytale somewhere, a tale about things being juuuuuust right.
 

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I've never been turned down but was told to go easy. If I was a half an inch bigger I think it would be a problem. Most women say that anything bigger would hurt too much. I can't do doggie most times if I'm super hard.
 

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This is a little different than what most are talking about, but here's a "turn down" story. I'd had a few dates with a beautiful woman that a friend introduced me to. On the third or fourth date, we went back to my house and - must to my pleasure - she initiated the activities. The bad news was it was an inconvenient time of the month for things to be fully consumated, but she offered up oral sex and - in the process - gushed about my cock. She kept talking about it's size and how she really wanted it inside of her and what she was going to do to me when things cleared up. Clearly, I was looking forward to it and it seemed like the next step was a done deal.

Anyway, we went out to lunch a couple days later and things seemed fine. But, when I called to see what we were doing the next weekend, she threw me for a loop when she said she just didn't think this was going to work and gave me a few half-assed reasons. She didn't turn me down because I had a big dick, but she turned down an opportunity once she knew I had one. I thought about it reverse. If I guy got to third base with a really hot woman, he would probably put up with at least more time out of general principle to complete the cycle, even if he didn't really like her that much. We seemed to be getting along. By the LPSG Theory, the above average cock should have sealed it. It just didn't matter than much in the end.
 

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I have 8 inches girth at the base and 6.5 inches in the middle. G/f is a virgin (waiting till marriage). Am Afraid I might tear her up. She has seen my dick and she says she believes she can handle it, though she admits she's scared. She's extremely sexy with large hips and bubble black butt. I jerk off everyday thinking about fucking her.
 

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I got turned down a couple of times in high school, like they would give me handjobs or suck on it but didn't want to fuck it or for long. Worse off, word got around that I was pretty big and all of a sudden I got a lot of texts from girls acting like they were interested but actually just wanting me to send them nudes.
 

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I don't really understand posts like these, I have never been in a position when cock size has been discussed before any form of 'action' takes place and have never been so astounded by the size of one that I would consider walking away from it in 'mid flow'.
I just can't imagine how big one would have to be to even think of doing that and I doubt that there are any that huge. All the time on here we see clips of tiny petite girls taking on the biggest cocks out there and they seem to cope, why should we non porn stars be any different?
I have been with a couple of guys whose reputation preceeded them if you know what I mean and on those occasions I knew what I might be letting myself in for, but again size wasn't discussed before hand.
I wish I had walked away from one of them though, but not because of his size, he was truly huge but it was the way he used it that had me upset, one of the worst lovers I've ever had!
To conclude, i would suggest that any women who walked away from someone because of the size of the dick had another reason or most guys who claim that this has happened are talking BS.
 

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I've been turned down by or stopped before i was halfway in by almost every guy I've been with at least once. Usually i can prevent getting refused by doing a lot of foreplay and loosening him up. If we try again,i can usually make it work the second time. Sucks sometimes... But would never wish i was smaller.
 

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I don't really understand posts like these, I have never been in a position when cock size has been discussed before any form of 'action' takes place and have never been so astounded by the size of one that I would consider walking away from it in 'mid flow'.
I just can't imagine how big one would have to be to even think of doing that and I doubt that there are any that huge. All the time on here we see clips of tiny petite girls taking on the biggest cocks out there and they seem to cope, why should we non porn stars be any different?
I have been with a couple of guys whose reputation preceeded them if you know what I mean and on those occasions I knew what I might be letting myself in for, but again size wasn't discussed before hand.
I wish I had walked away from one of them though, but not because of his size, he was truly huge but it was the way he used it that had me upset, one of the worst lovers I've ever had!
To conclude, i would suggest that any women who walked away from someone because of the size of the dick had another reason or most guys who claim that this has happened are talking BS.

^This!

I have never, ever had any type of relations with a man who advertised his size before we were intimate. That's not to say that I never met a man who advertised; it's just that if they do then they won't be with me.

Your physiology is just one part of the big equation, and sometimes big guys forget that and think all we want is the D. Well, there are whole bunch of other letters in the alphabet that matter to me too.
 

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most guys who claim that this has happened are talking BS.

Lol, gotta agree with Lady on this one. Doubt there are any men out there SOOOOO huge that a woman won't even try. Just completely dismiss the entire man because he's too big? Naw...

A chuckle...or something equivalent "wow" is the most I've gotten, but never a sense of fright that caused a woman to completely dismiss me....but then again I may be just an average sized guy.
 

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All the time on here we see clips of tiny petite girls taking on the biggest cocks out there and they seem to cope, why should we non porn stars be any different?

I have never seen a clip of a woman taking an extremely long penis, that was fully hard, balls deep.


Lol, gotta agree with Lady on this one. Doubt there are any men out there SOOOOO huge that a woman won't even try. Just completely dismiss the entire man because he's too big? Naw...

I have a good friend of mine who was basically single for 12 years because his dick was too big. It does happen.
 
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