Is it cool to just say "I don't like you, sorry" to someone when you've arranged to go on a date? I thought to myself a date couldn't hurt and she is a nice person but I don't think she's the right girl for me. Is there a way to let her down gently? Usually I would just go with the flow, go on dates with people but its getting to be expensive so I feel I need to be more selective instead of arranging dates with anyone who asks. Plus she is actually not that attractive. It's just that I would feel bad because she is really looking forward to going on a date with me. But surely it would feel worse for me to go on the date and pretend I like her? Guess its a rock and a hard place situation. Probably sounds trivial though. I'm such a social noob.