Hey guys, Long time since I've been on LPSG, but I'm after a bit of advice. Before anything, don't be fooled by my username.. I'm a guy. ANYWAY up until now I've been straight. A few physical heterosexual relationships, but that's about it. The truth is, I've always wanted to experience something with another guy... in my mind, probably just oral... it's something I've been wanting to do for a while. I've known a guy in my area who is gay and we've been speaking online for the last few months. He's aware of my desires and asked me if I'd like to do anything with him. I kind of gave in to temptation and told him to come past my place tomorrow. Now I'm a bit scared because I've been doing a bit of reading about all the dangerous and incurable diseases that exist in gay sexually active men (namely. HIV, herpes) which can be spread by even just oral. I guess my question is... I'm only wanting to do this once (i think).. it's something I want to experience. Is it worth putting myself at risk to these diseases? Am I being too worried, since it's just going to be oral? Short of sucking him with a condom on, anything else I can do to make it safer? Thanks guys EDIT: Just thought I'd add.. this guy is very hot. Which is making the decision even harder Should I pass up or take the risk. Aghh someone reassure me here.