Ok fellaz and galls, I need some serious advice! When I was young, I was extremely confident and charismatic around everybody, but I was especially flirtatious with women. Then some shit happen, and then I got older, and now I'm a recluse that has an outgoing personality but I can't get the nerve to talk to a random good looking chick! At work I can do it because I have to greet every customer, but once I clock out from work, it's like my mind goes back to recluse mode. I try to explain to my friends, family, and even some close co-workers (yeah I know, mixing work and personal life can be dangerous) that I'm wild, crazy, outgoing, and the life of the party.... but when it comes to breaking the ice, I JUST CAN'T DO IT! :frown1: I'm 24, only had 2 girlfriends in my lifetime, and if I don't get some help with this, I'm gonna scream! I REFUSE, HEAR ME, REFUSE to be that one neighbor with a house full of cats and dogs to keep me company! Any advice? Any suggestions?