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And I gracefully turn down your offer. I am not abusing anybody and I expect the same courtesy. You can differ but that is just my opinion. And I know she was not asking for it. Nobody does, regardless it is a lesson for all of us to be safe.


Again do not abuse me. It is easier to sit behind the computer and write
F word but have you ever thought that other person can write the same to you. Should I think, you are asking for it ? Think about it.


*Passes you a doobie*:439: Chill the fuck out bub. Your driving way too fast down Silly Blvd.
 

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I hope ya find that asshat and give him what he deserves. Im terribly sorry for what has happened to her. She was and is one of the good ones. I hope for her speedy return.
 

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Aaaaaand that's why that loser was the first person I ever had to put on ignore. The very first ever. He's still there. I wish people wouldn't quote his stupidity. LOL

Oh, Cap, please add my list t the name of folks who'll miss EllieP. She's a blend of sugar and spice that no one else manages to pull off in quite the same way. I hope she'll feel safe again soon, and if she never feels safe enough to come back to us, I wish her luck and happiness. And a bottomless supply of gym clothes and pretty shoes.

Yes, please stop quoting him - he was first on my ignore list too. He's from Adult Websites....

Please add my name to people who will miss Ellie. I noticed her avatar was missing yesterday and I knew that didn't bode well. I am so sorry she got frightened. She is such an open & joyful person - makes me sick when someone so kind gets a hit.

Hope you did let the mods know who it was.

Give her a hug from me!
 

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Damn, im sorry that happened to you. thank you for reminding us how vulnerable we can be. I hope they find the bastard. I also hope she does'nt have to worry about anything like this again.
 

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I agree with a lot of the posts. I too will miss Elle, you should out the fucking bastard.

Last but not least, SpiceFromIndia is an asshole for saying what he said. I have a feeling it's either cultural or just poor English, but his words did convey "She asked for it".
 

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For those who think Facebook isn't a good place to post your real name and location, that is absolutely right.

I have my true face here, but my actual location and name are no place on the Net except my telephone bill. Everyone, if you have an online presence for outreach purposes as I do, do a whois query, and google yourself, use search engines to see what comes up, limit access to your information only to what you wish accessed.

Yes I have an actual telephone number and a post office box for contact, but it is only available for The Healing Line and my profession. Yes I have my actual face in some places, but not for purposes of getting to know anyone whatsoever in the flesh, and I doubt I will be accosted on the streets of my city because I don't actually spend much time in it.

Unlike dear Ellie I am not much involved in my geographical community and do not know my neighbors.
 
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Well, this has come back to bite me. Even though "Ellie" doesn't log in here she's making me look every day for interesting threads and reporting. I told her she could lurk, but she's even skittish to do that. Oh well. Haven't been on in a while myself, and it's kind of good to see some of the old names and miss some who are gone.

Reactions so far: the guy has broken off all contact, thankfully. I've held back wanting to contact him myself. She's really restricted the privacy on her Facebook account to family only, which is how it should have been. And except for her professional website I don't think there's another image of her on the web. But you never know.

She's almost cried when I read some of the posts on this thread. The outpouring of support has been truly humbling to her and she thanks all of you.
 

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Aw, shucks, I didn't see this until now. Give my love to the magnificient EllieP.

If it helps any, this sort of thing happened to me on three separate occasions (where I was spotted on LPSG and recognized). I changed my screen name (which got me out of Google, as I was coming up on google searches) and took down all recognizable face pics, and the situation eventually died down. Yeah, one of them still lurks my gallery, but there are no further attempts to contact me.

Faces are visual fingerprints. If you want to share an image of yourself, show anything EXCEPT the face and recognizable tattoos.

I do charity stuff and educational work, so being here is not the best choice for me. But hey, it's better than being addicted to coccaine or heroine. It may come back to bite me someday, but I figure it won't kill me. If anything, it will make me a colorful character. (If I did it for money, THEN there would be problems.) :rolleyes:

Besides, there are a lot of great people here, and some of the threads are more interesting than the usual dinner-party chatter.
 
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