We all get a little scared sometimes - but those of us with a lot of experience of being attacked ,& getting broken bones, teeth, & stab wounds, yet still tread the same path, probably have a better rationale.
rape is in a totally different class of assault. ya are a man, i doubt you will ever understand the fear. my amazon ass can't quite understand the fear. i just know it's real.
your hard cunt status, and male physique, gives you an advantage in defending yourself or dishing out an equalizing an beat down.
women often have no experience in fist to cuffs, have a size disadvantage. and well.. rape is rape. no experience myself, but i have been bashed. i can honestly say i would rather nurse broken bones than deal with the aftermath of rape.
likes above... i'm never worried about a man attempting to rape me. i give off an attitude of not being someone to fuck with. also got an advantage of being taller, stronger and more willing to do damage than most women. so i walk down dark alleys, head out to roam at 4am, never flinch when anyone gets into an elevator.
when it comes to my girlie? i get a bit cavedyke protective. she's tiny. got a mouth full of razor blades, but maxes the scale at 89-94 lbs. i am hyper aware of every twitchy looking bastard in the room. when she steps out, i follow her and keep an eye out for anyone going her way. i've taught her how to gravely injure an attacker with most of the items in her purse.
she thinks my protectiveness is adorable and silly. i tell her i am not crazy, the world is a dangerous place.
if i had a kid, male or female, i'll teach them to defend themselves. to not be afraid of embarrassing themselves or someone else if they are uncomfortable or feel threatened. to be as loud and confrontational as their Mom :tongue: when required.
i don't really agree with the blog on topic. but i can see where the fear comes from.. and how fear can make a person feel helpless. if being on constant guard makes getting through the day easier, keep on guard.