kwame: When my girl gives me head, I just can't keep my mouth shut. I make all these funny noises and she finds them funny. She told me that most guys just sit there and take it like a man. We look at some porn and alot of the guys don't moan or nothing. Do you guys think I should just grin and bear it and not let her know how good it feels because it make me seem weak in her eyes? And for the women do you like for your men to moan & groan to let you know how good you are making them feel?
H8Monga: You're looking at the wrong porn!
Make as much noise as you want... SHE has to grin and bear it!
I've seen guys scream when they orgasm in porn... it can be annoying... I think Lex Steele and those guys they use for blacksonblondes or whatever it is now do... OVERACTORS!
Make as much noise as you want... SHE has to grin and bear it!
I've seen guys scream when they orgasm in porn... it can be annoying... I think Lex Steele and those guys they use for blacksonblondes or whatever it is now do... OVERACTORS!
banana_boy33: I read in a magazine , that girls would be more likely to give their guy a blowjob if he seems into it, some crap about her knowing, she's doing it right and making you happy,but of course thats from a magazine so who knows how true that is.
Javierdude22: Girls like a guy that expresses himself in every way...so during sex of course they want you to react!...no need to be stoic during sex, if it feels good, moan like theres no tomorrow...
aussiechick63: Hell YEAH!!!!!!!
I love my man to moan and groan and writhe around under me. I get off on knowing how much he's getting off on what I am doing to him. Don't be quiet, just let it flow. If it feels good then let her know how damn good it feels.
It works both ways. Do you like her to moan and yell and scream when she's enjoying, or do you like her to lay there quietly and let you do what you want to do to her???
I love my man to moan and groan and writhe around under me. I get off on knowing how much he's getting off on what I am doing to him. Don't be quiet, just let it flow. If it feels good then let her know how damn good it feels.
It works both ways. Do you like her to moan and yell and scream when she's enjoying, or do you like her to lay there quietly and let you do what you want to do to her???
aussiechick63: dammit 
you shouldn't try and post when you been drinking. I don't know where it went to
I thought it was a good post too.
oopsie.. silly me. it's still there. I thought I deleted it.
I'm so embarrassed. :-[
oh well what the hell. Back to the fridge for more alcohol
you shouldn't try and post when you been drinking. I don't know where it went to
I thought it was a good post too.
oopsie.. silly me. it's still there. I thought I deleted it.
I'm so embarrassed. :-[
oh well what the hell. Back to the fridge for more alcohol
sammygirly: NOBODY has to "take" it LOL....it's not a chore, it's mutually enjoyable.
So moan and groan, whine, grunt, growl.....we love it.
So moan and groan, whine, grunt, growl.....we love it.
Jimbo: Kwame:
The fact that your girl finds your expressions of pleasure when she is doing something you especially like as being "funny", probably means that she has been with stereotypical "macho" guys that really don't have a clue as to how good sex can REALLY be. Unfortunately in certain societies is generally taught that men are NOT supposed to express certain feelings openly (such as crying) because it is not the "manly" thing to do. This expectation of manhood is learned by the females too, so they come to expect that this is the way a man is "supposed" to be in sex and relationships in general.
If you look as some the the topics in this forum that complain that their partner is giving them "bad" sex (oral, genital, whatever) or the poster can't figure out how to please their partner, a lot of times it is just due to a lack of communication.
When you moan and groan it means you are really enjoying what is being done to you. It also means that a partner receptive to that will use that information whether consciously or subconsciously during sex as a feedback or a "lesson" in understanding what turns you on and will build on that to make sex even better for you.
You should do the same for your partner. I am sure she makes certain sounds during sex when you are in the "zone", but from her viewpoint, it is "okay" because she is female. Her sounds of pleasure are queues to you as to what she likes and can (and should) be used to give her mind-blowing orgasms.
As far as your girlfriend understanding this, talk to her about it. Let her look at this topic and the FEMALES responses. But in no case would i REPRESS my urge to be expressive to please her stereotypical expectations. Otherwise it may lead to frustration on your part. Go rent some porn with male actors that express themselves (like the BonB stuff that Hapi Papi finds annoying).
Hapi Papi:
As far as your "overacting" comment, I am not saying that sometimes the BonB guys do not perform for the sake of the camera (the same can be said for a lot of female actors in porn in general). But that kind of male expression is what makes the BlacksonBlondes stuff exciting for BOTH partners to watch, not just the typical male-oriented "jack-off" porn where the guy seems to have total domination and control over the female, while he moves around like a robot with a hard-on.
The fact that your girl finds your expressions of pleasure when she is doing something you especially like as being "funny", probably means that she has been with stereotypical "macho" guys that really don't have a clue as to how good sex can REALLY be. Unfortunately in certain societies is generally taught that men are NOT supposed to express certain feelings openly (such as crying) because it is not the "manly" thing to do. This expectation of manhood is learned by the females too, so they come to expect that this is the way a man is "supposed" to be in sex and relationships in general.
If you look as some the the topics in this forum that complain that their partner is giving them "bad" sex (oral, genital, whatever) or the poster can't figure out how to please their partner, a lot of times it is just due to a lack of communication.
When you moan and groan it means you are really enjoying what is being done to you. It also means that a partner receptive to that will use that information whether consciously or subconsciously during sex as a feedback or a "lesson" in understanding what turns you on and will build on that to make sex even better for you.
You should do the same for your partner. I am sure she makes certain sounds during sex when you are in the "zone", but from her viewpoint, it is "okay" because she is female. Her sounds of pleasure are queues to you as to what she likes and can (and should) be used to give her mind-blowing orgasms.
As far as your girlfriend understanding this, talk to her about it. Let her look at this topic and the FEMALES responses. But in no case would i REPRESS my urge to be expressive to please her stereotypical expectations. Otherwise it may lead to frustration on your part. Go rent some porn with male actors that express themselves (like the BonB stuff that Hapi Papi finds annoying).
Hapi Papi:
As far as your "overacting" comment, I am not saying that sometimes the BonB guys do not perform for the sake of the camera (the same can be said for a lot of female actors in porn in general). But that kind of male expression is what makes the BlacksonBlondes stuff exciting for BOTH partners to watch, not just the typical male-oriented "jack-off" porn where the guy seems to have total domination and control over the female, while he moves around like a robot with a hard-on.
jackinman: Hey kwame, let the whole damn block know that you're having good sex. Moan, scream, make all those ugly faces that we all make and moan again buddy. If it feels good HOLLA.......
jackinman: [quote author=AnonyMs link=board=youth;num=1056084898;start=0#10 date=06/20/03 at 15:15:46]The more noise the better.... unless we are at my mother's house..... :-[[/quote]
hmmm.....sounds like you got caught once or twice huh....... : you should know better than to bring that to your mother's house, they hear evvvvverything.
hmmm.....sounds like you got caught once or twice huh....... :
you should know better than to bring that to your mother's house, they hear evvvvverything. 
Personally, I'm rather quiet during sex. But, this post reminds me of something evil I did when I had an ex boyfriend, who although he had broken up with me (his idea) wasn't getting the message about it being time to move out of my house. So, I gave him a little nudge that it was time to move on.
I knew the ex went out dancing on certain nights, and knew exactly at what late hour he would come in. I had met a guy that was an absolute screamer throughout sex, even before his orgasm. So, I brought the new guy home on the ex's dance night out, fooled around a little, and let him go to sleep. When I heard the ex's car in the driveway, I woke him up, said I needed to fuck, and proceeded to do so. The ex came in very quietly, so the new guy had no idea there was an audience, and showed no restraint in this moans, screams, and language. I gave it to him for a good long time, then made him cum as loudly as possible.
It was wonderful to see the ex's expression and behavior when we all met in the morning. Of course, I feel a little bad about the embarassment I caused the new guy when he discovered that someone was in the house while he was carrying on, but it was worth it!
I knew the ex went out dancing on certain nights, and knew exactly at what late hour he would come in. I had met a guy that was an absolute screamer throughout sex, even before his orgasm. So, I brought the new guy home on the ex's dance night out, fooled around a little, and let him go to sleep. When I heard the ex's car in the driveway, I woke him up, said I needed to fuck, and proceeded to do so. The ex came in very quietly, so the new guy had no idea there was an audience, and showed no restraint in this moans, screams, and language. I gave it to him for a good long time, then made him cum as loudly as possible.
It was wonderful to see the ex's expression and behavior when we all met in the morning. Of course, I feel a little bad about the embarassment I caused the new guy when he discovered that someone was in the house while he was carrying on, but it was worth it!
kwame: [quote author=Hapi Papi link=board=youth;num=1056084898;start=0#1 date=06/19/03 at 22:15:33]You're looking at the wrong porn!
I seen a porn where the guy yell out. I think it was Jake Steed. I understand why he does it now because when I get head its like I'm a tea kettle with a flame under it. You can only take so much heat before you start whistling. Lol Some of it can be overacting but in my case it's overheating.
make as much noise as you want... SHE has to grin and bear it!
I've seen guys scream when they orgasm in porn... it can be annoying... I think Lex Steele and those guys they use for blacksonblondes or whatever it is now do... OVERACTORS![/quote]
I seen a porn where the guy yell out. I think it was Jake Steed. I understand why he does it now because when I get head its like I'm a tea kettle with a flame under it. You can only take so much heat before you start whistling. Lol Some of it can be overacting but in my case it's overheating.
make as much noise as you want... SHE has to grin and bear it!
I've seen guys scream when they orgasm in porn... it can be annoying... I think Lex Steele and those guys they use for blacksonblondes or whatever it is now do... OVERACTORS![/quote]
kwame: [quote author=banana_boy33 link=board=youth;num=1056084898;start=0#2 date=06/19/03 at 22:54:57]I read in a magazine , that girls would be more likely to give their guy a blowjob if he seems into it, some crap about her knowing, she's doing it right and making you happy,but of course thats from a magazine so who knows how true that is. [/quote]
Wassup banana boy Yeah I think you are right on this one. Eventhough she may complain about my sudden outbursts, If I didn't do it she might not be as willing to do it.
Wassup banana boy Yeah I think you are right on this one. Eventhough she may complain about my sudden outbursts, If I didn't do it she might not be as willing to do it.
kwame: [quote author=Javierdude23 link=board=youth;num=1056084898;start=0#3 date=06/20/03 at 03:05:38]Girls like a guy that expresses himself in every way...so during sex of course they want you to react!...no need to be stoic during sex, if it feels good, moan like theres no tomorrow...[/quote]
Dude that's what I'm talking bout. I'm glad to see other's out there that feel my pain. Good looking out.
Dude that's what I'm talking bout. I'm glad to see other's out there that feel my pain. Good looking out.
kwame: [quote author=aussiechick63 link=board=youth;num=1056084898;start=0#4 date=06/20/03 at 04:11:22]Hell YEAH!!!!!!!
I love my man to moan and groan and writhe around under me. I get off on knowing how much he's getting off on what I am doing to him. Don't be quiet, just let it flow. If it feels good then let her know how damn good it feels.
It works both ways. Do you like her to moan and yell and scream when she's enjoying, or do you like her to lay there quietly and let you do what you want to do to her???[/quote]
Aussiechick you sound like one hot mama. I think with time my girl will be more accepting. She knows she got me where she wants me. She knows my body almost as well as me. When I start moaning alittle she intensifies the sensation. I don't think no man can stand to feel the most incredible feeling that our penis gives us without at least saying ooh. Lol For some reason I think she gets a kick out of making me jerk and make all kinds of crazy faces. She even knows when I'm to cum because she said that she can feel the pulse in my penis beat really fast. Then she apply pressure to my head to reduce the sensation. This may sound crazy Ms Aussiechick but one night she made me feel so good that I asked her to marry me. Lmao As for my girl if she is not climbing the walls then I'm not doing my job. It gives me great satisfaction to see & hear her begging me to stop. I told her as long as I have a face that she has a place to sit. Ms. Aussiechick after I'm through with her it looks like I ate a bucket of KFC original. You feeling me. Thanks for responding I'm glad to see there are still good women out there.
I love my man to moan and groan and writhe around under me. I get off on knowing how much he's getting off on what I am doing to him. Don't be quiet, just let it flow. If it feels good then let her know how damn good it feels.
It works both ways. Do you like her to moan and yell and scream when she's enjoying, or do you like her to lay there quietly and let you do what you want to do to her???[/quote]
Aussiechick you sound like one hot mama. I think with time my girl will be more accepting. She knows she got me where she wants me. She knows my body almost as well as me. When I start moaning alittle she intensifies the sensation. I don't think no man can stand to feel the most incredible feeling that our penis gives us without at least saying ooh. Lol For some reason I think she gets a kick out of making me jerk and make all kinds of crazy faces. She even knows when I'm to cum because she said that she can feel the pulse in my penis beat really fast. Then she apply pressure to my head to reduce the sensation. This may sound crazy Ms Aussiechick but one night she made me feel so good that I asked her to marry me. Lmao As for my girl if she is not climbing the walls then I'm not doing my job. It gives me great satisfaction to see & hear her begging me to stop. I told her as long as I have a face that she has a place to sit. Ms. Aussiechick after I'm through with her it looks like I ate a bucket of KFC original. You feeling me. Thanks for responding I'm glad to see there are still good women out there.
kwame: [quote author=sammygirly link=board=youth;num=1056084898;start=0#6 date=06/20/03 at 09:19:18]NOBODY has to "take" it LOL....it's not a chore, it's mutually enjoyable.
So moan and groan, whine, grunt, growl.....we love it. [/quote]
You are my type of woman. Lmao Who let the dogs out?
So moan and groan, whine, grunt, growl.....we love it. [/quote]
You are my type of woman. Lmao Who let the dogs out?
kwame: [quote author=sammygirly link=board=youth;num=1056084898;start=0#6 date=06/20/03 at 09:19:18]NOBODY has to "take" it LOL....it's not a chore, it's mutually enjoyable.
So moan and groan, whine, grunt, growl.....we love it. [/quote]
You are my type of woman. And I love it too. I'm getting a lot of practice, in a couple of years I'll be legal. Hmmmmmmmmm
So moan and groan, whine, grunt, growl.....we love it. [/quote]
You are my type of woman. And I love it too. I'm getting a lot of practice, in a couple of years I'll be legal. Hmmmmmmmmm
H8Monga: [quote author=kwame link=board=youth;num=1056084898;start=0#13 date=06/21/03 at 08:07:40]
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