So I'm a newbie here and hope I'm not gonna get flamed for this. I'm in a nice relationship with a girl I like and it is very sexually satisfying. Over the last year however I've really wanted to have a guy friend to have fun with (jo, oral, no kissing). I know I'm gonna get some hate for cheating, but this is something I really want to experience sexually; I have a huge sexual drive! I live near a gay bar and have thought about maybe meeting someone there, but I don't want a relationship or drama of that. Mind you I don't want to turn gay, I'm not attracted to guys at all. I'm just interested to hear the opinions of cheating and not cheating. If only doing oral and jo isn't cheating in peoples mind I would feel better. Any advice? Think I could find a guy willing to be just a buddy and a secret play buddy?