. Im a big dude, I guess a 'bear', and im black. when i feel like playing with guys, im really specific in what im looking for. I like young, cute white guys with small figures and (preferably) big cocks. I havent really been able to find a place (online or in real life) where i can meet these types of guys. Te bathhouses and porn stores are, apparently, mainly muscular, masculine guys, which i have no interest in.i tried grindr for a while but nobody responded. Anybody got any suggestions?