Secret Size Queen

[fournineteenfiftynine]

My partner has a nice, average sized penis. It works fine and can be hot at times. He has no idea what a size queen I am. A large penis turns me on so much. But I fear sharing this information as I don't want to hurt his feelings. I wonder if there are others who hide their desire for big dick. Being gay, he might also have that preference but both of us are average. Maybe it's something we could play with somehow together.

Suggestions for this situation or similar thoughts welcome.

 

[deleted4500261]

Do you both ever watch porn together? If so, maybe introduce some that are focused on larger dicks. I think the challenge will be that you don’t want your partner to feel like they aren’t meeting your needs or that you want something that they don’t have.
But if you are watching monster cock porn and find out that it’s a turn on for you both then maybe that alone will satiate your size queen leanings.
If you find your partner likes that too then you could play around with penis sleeves and maybe have fun that way. I’m on the larger size but used to use a 10” penis sleeve with my ex wife. It ended up that she didn’t like it (it was more my idea) but we tried it out and had a little fun with it and moved on.

 

[fournineteenfiftynine]

I think that is a good idea and we do watch porn together. We have slightly different tastes in porn. He likes it when they kind of look like straight guys, penis size is not as much as an issue for him he seem just more into a masculine build and look. I like it all pretty much but when I see a big, fat cock I get hungry/thirsty and get a feeling of "I want that in me!" I'm more the bottom and love riding a thick cock. His is fine for riding but I kind of think that at some point I'm going to want a fatty inside me.

 

[BigDickHunter1]

Is opening your relationship something you think your partner could be into? Even if just momentarily? Because going that route so you can actually hook up with a big guy, knowing your partner is cool with it, might be a good way to go about this. Just to get it out of your system (and his, if he turns out to be a size queen too).
It might seem like an extreme solution but, speaking from experience, simply burying your desire for something bigger and keeping it a secret from your partner could eventually lead to serious problems in your relationship.

 

[auncut10in]

I don't think it is necessarily a bad thing that you prefer big dicks. It doesn't mean that you are unhappy with your partner. And sometimes it can actually strengthen your relationship with him. A guy who was in a similar situation that you are in contacted me on line and asked if I would be willing to be a part of his boyfriends birthday present. His boyfriend loves sucking really big dick and his gift would be to have some hung guys over for his boyfriend to suck off.

I go over to his house on the birthday. Three or four other guys were there. We all stripped down, each slyly checking the other guy out and each at different stages of erections. They had us line up on the couch. It was a pretty big couch but we were still packed in pretty tightly, thigh to thigh. The birthday boy starts with the guy that was the hardest. He did love sucking cock. And it didn’t take long for the rest of us to get rock hard watching him work that first hard dick over. When our master cock sucker looks up, he just about cried he was so happy. His partner did truly pick some very fine specimens for him to work on. The birthday boy would go from dick to dick like a humming bird sucking the nectar out of spring flowers. Fortunately, I had the biggest flower, and he seemed to go back to my dick pretty regular for the nourishment he was looking for.

At this point his boyfriend brought out party favors. A silver tray filled with poppers. I tell him that I don’t usually use poppers because they give me a headache. He gave me a bottle and said try these. Wow, they worked and no headache.

One by one, an eruption would occur until there were just two of us left. Fortunately I have pretty good control of when I cum. So I am the last dick standing. I ask him if he is ready for my load. He gives a submissive nod. One last time he slides my dick down his throat. I take the back of his head and push just that little more. That is all it takes. My dick starts pulsing as I shoot my load all the way deep in his throat. He didn’t ever get to taste it. I hoped that is what he wanted with the last load of his birthday feast.

Is all I can say is what a thoughtful boyfriend. I loved how they both figured out a way to indulge the fantasies of the other. So much more healthy than hiding it. I think it can actually bring you both closer together.

 

[halcyondays]

Is opening your relationship something you think your partner could be into? Even if just momentarily? Because going that route so you can actually hook up with a big guy, knowing your partner is cool with it, might be a good way to go about this. Just to get it out of your system (and his, if he turns out to be a size queen too).

^This might be an option. I've been third party big dick for gay couples--sometimes as bull but more often for the partner who wants it in an open(ed) relationship. This includes bulling for both but on separate occasions--which some call taking turns, lol.

The real mark of an open relationship is meeting with both in advance for the approval of both. Not every open couple does this or can do this. Some partners don't want to know/meet the guy banging their mate.

Though I prefer one-on-one some MMM three ways have resulted including the few times I've been in the middle of man sandwich but that's another story.

How to bring it up? Individuals & couples who contacted me said they talked about it a lot in advance. I think communication is key.

Another thing to consider is hiring and paying your third party big dick. While some find this seedy others like it because it keeps the act impersonal therefore unthreatening to their relationship.

The other option is to cheat. That happens. I don't judge those who do.

 

[Japabrus]

I don't think it is necessarily a bad thing that you prefer big dicks. It doesn't mean that you are unhappy with your partner. And sometimes it can actually strengthen your relationship with him. A guy who was in a similar situation that you are in contacted me on line and asked if I would be willing to be a part of his boyfriends birthday present. His boyfriend loves sucking really big dick and his gift would be to have some hung guys over for his boyfriend to suck off.

I go over to his house on the birthday. Three or four other guys were there. We all stripped down, each slyly checking the other guy out and each at different stages of erections. They had us line up on the couch. It was a pretty big couch but we were still packed in pretty tightly, thigh to thigh. The birthday boy starts with the guy that was the hardest. He did love sucking cock. And it didn’t take long for the rest of us to get rock hard watching him work that first hard dick over. When our master cock sucker looks up, he just about cried he was so happy. His partner did truly pick some very fine specimens for him to work on. The birthday boy would go from dick to dick like a humming bird sucking the nectar out of spring flowers. Fortunately, I had the biggest flower, and he seemed to go back to my dick pretty regular for the nourishment he was looking for.

At this point his boyfriend brought out party favors. A silver tray filled with poppers. I tell him that I don’t usually use poppers because they give me a headache. He gave me a bottle and said try these. Wow, they worked and no headache.

One by one, an eruption would occur until there were just two of us left. Fortunately I have pretty good control of when I cum. So I am the last dick standing. I ask him if he is ready for my load. He gives a submissive nod. One last time he slides my dick down his throat. I take the back of his head and push just that little more. That is all it takes. My dick starts pulsing as I shoot my load all the way deep in his throat. He didn’t ever get to taste it. I hoped that is what he wanted with the last load of his birthday feast.

Is all I can say is what a thoughtful boyfriend. I loved how they both figured out a way to indulge the fantasies of the other. So much more healthy than hiding it. I think it can actually bring you both closer together.

Agreed. Communication is key. Your urge for a larger dick isn’t the issue. It’s the communication of it. Once you start hiding things it becomes toxic to the relationship. What makes the honeymoom phase of a relationship great is that every one is receptive and talking about every issue at the same wave length and loving all of it. Then the relationship segues into the normal day to day and then our communication game isn’t as strong anymore. It’s an art that needs to be continued and practiced to work in both the mundane (babe can you buy eggs when you’re out?) and sexual conversations (babe, I need to get DP —- what do you think?). Good luck!

 

[auncut10in]

I totally agree. And maybe it is easiest to bring up an open relationship at the very beginning. When my partner and I first got together, I knew I would fool around with other guys. Stuff just happens way too often for me to think I would always be able to say no thanks. Especially when I never want to even say no thanks.

We were talking about this actually at a mall for some reason. I told him that I would play around and if it was a deal breaker, then we really shouldn't get serious. He agreed and was fine with it. I had to go pee. So I went to the restroom. There was no dividers (we were in Barcelona). I go up next to a guy that was already there and started to pee. He got hard and before I was done, was jerking off watching me. I told him to hold my dick for me while I finish peeing. He loved it. Then got on his knees and sucked me off right there. I came out, walked over to my soon to be boyfriend and told him every single thing that happened. We are still together 14 years later.