Seducing a demure girl

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  1. korinaus

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    Is there anyone who has an experience of seducing a demure and aloof 'good-girl' type? How it is different from with other girls? Thanks for sharing in advance!
     
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    usually good girls want some kind of love or commitment before u can seduce her as such... define good girl
     
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    Hey. First, thanks for saving my post from being ended up with no reply. I didn't mean to generalize 'demure girl types' but there are some girls who when I show even a slight interest in her make me a bit gulity and almost lead me to think that "how dare I, she is too good and pure". So, sometimes I wonder what kind of guy can approach these girls and how.
     
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    how does she make u feel like that?
     
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    They like the bad boy type that can make them laugh. Not as in telling jokes funny, but as in doing things spontaneously funny. If thats not you, then kill her with kindness. The former way is quicker.
     
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    Well, hard to explain. Easily evade eye-contact. Minimum answer when asked something. Always with girls in a traditional lady clothing. The repetition of library and home. Never clubbing. I don't know. Things like that..
     
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    I had a "good girl" girlfriend - these girls structure their lives to feel safe, i.e. rather than going out drinking with the boys and risk getting hurt or worse, they stay in and study and will only do "naughty things" within the safety of their mind.

    You have to build up their trust, slowly and eventually start to suggest that you find her sexually attractive without being too pushy. Since their minds and imaginations are very active, you need to build up their confidence, make it understood that you're seeking more than just a fling and somehow make them feel sexy. After a few dates go shopping with her and help her to choose flattering sexy clothes if it's possible, most women love to model.

    When you have won her confidence, then the interesting stuff starts, kind of like opening Pandora's box, she already loves to learn about things so you can become her "Love professor" and if you're clever, create the best lover ever. She will probably fall in love with you if you get that far!

    With mine, the sexual discovery period was amazing but eventually she returned into her box and became a boring "good girl" again which made me lose interest, I suppose I didn't find the way she really was very attractive or fun so I ended it.

    If you are the sensible "nice boy" type, maybe you will be more compatible with a good girl.
     
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    be her friend first.
    charm rather than seduce.
    if she thinks you're aiming for her knickers she'll run a mile.
     
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    Your advice is good but requires perseverance. lol. By the way, I have a question since it seems you are living in the UK, I heard from a friend of mine who is American living in the UK that girls in high society there are still living in the era of 'Sense and Sensibility'. Is is true to some extent?
     
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    ahahahaha!
    no, she's winding you up big time.

    tell you what...google tara palmer-tompkinson.
    related to the royal family.
     
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    "Cocaine comes round with the canapés at a lot of the parties in London."
     
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    Chloroform might be an option.
     
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    Listen here Boy!
    If you do not love this girl and just see her as a sexual challenge then FUCK OFF and keep your dick to yourself.

    There are always hungry dicks hovering around innocent girls like wasps around unspoilt fruit.
    Be man enough to allow her to have that very first special time with someone who really cares for her.
    She isn't a mountain to climb just because she is there.

    Trust is the by-word for girls like this and trying to gain it just to fuck her makes you one of the biggest low life around.

    Go bang the tart down at the corner store.
     
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    I only want to date a girl that I am friends with first but most women seem to dislike the idea
     
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    Where are you in threads where women are wanting to break some guys heart by going out and trying a bigger dick?
     
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    Well, it is sad to hear that because I almost cried when I first read Sense and Sensibility.
     
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    Take it very slow and become her friend first. I think you know the rest.
     
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    Oh, I loathe Austen for Marianne's fate.
     
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    Off the top of my head, Jane Austen herself was a super-demure girl!
     
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