There's a guy I know (I'm gay) who I think is completely sexy and want to bed him. He's straight, but I get some gaydar vibes from him. He's from out of town and we work together, and saw him a few weeks ago. At dinner I had my leg touching his at our group work dinner, and I noticed that he kept his in place and didn't move it. We've hung out socially before, and as we were checking out girls for him, he asked me "So, any guys you go for?" (I never told him I am gay). He asked me to come out to visit so we can hang out and stuff, so I need help in what I should do or say to see if he'd like to do stuff, with me. I don't want to come off as a fool or offend him, and he is a distant co-worker. Any advice or stories of similar experiences are greatly appreciated!