Seducing a guy

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In that last post, I should have written

....because of the discomfort in our relationship to him, not to me. (Maybe it was a Freudian slip?)
 

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Sabln7 said:
I have lost one good friend by having sex with him. He was straight and interested. We had sex----and for about a year, we had sex constantly. Then, he began feeling guilty about it (He was married--as was I), and our relationship cooled. I told him we could still be friends and not have sex, but he wanted to not even be friends any more because of the discomfort our relationship caused me. Losing a friend was not worth the sex. Also, it was not the greatest sex I ever had. It was a real mistake.

You guys had sex for a whole year and he's still straight? Interesting...
 

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Dating any Co-worker distant or near is just a BAD idea.

Swishy Femme or Masculine Might, Its still a bad idea for all.
Oogle over him to yourself, but don't cross the line.

I don't constitute bumping his knee a sign. I do see that YOU are hoping its a sign to get in his pants.

I work in a large corporate world, and I have my daily temptations too, but I know that it's better off left alone.

DUring christmas, our group went out to dinner. A straight co-worker was messing around, and grabbed my inner thigh - 3 times. Each time he got closer to Little Jim and the twins. Third time was the charm and he accidentally brushed my balls, then he was like OOPS! Sorry man! We laughed about it, but he told me after the fact that, he was Frightened because I DIDN'T jump... (He doesnt know for sure that im Gay), and he was happy that I didn't grab him back.

Is this a sign? NO. It's a co-worker thats stepping over the line, because your still "At Work", with your co-workers.

The group already covered it. You want to get a hot encounter - then cruise Gay.com or your local adult bookstore.

C
 

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Sounds like to me is a very cool relaxed kind of guy. Who is very secure with his own sexuality. He must like you as a friend, otherwise he would not be hanging out with you. When you went out and were "checking out girls". His comment about "do you see any guys you like" was his way of letting you know he "KNOWS". Just be cool and don't push thing. If the two of you are meant to fool around, nature will take you there.

Cube and Matthew...to bad we don't live near each other...seems like we all think alike.
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