i was searching for threads about these exact topic and couldnt agree more with what notthe7 and cherrylips are saying. they really almost describe the feeling and moment exactly. its really not all that hard to do, but you sorta need to have this understanding of the whole situation correct. you definitely dont want to being trying to hard when going about this whole "look"(as notthe7 called it i think) process. you sorta just need to just let it roll and have a mature confidence in yourself. im going to try to describe what im feeling/thinking during this look moment.
i have a confidence that i know i am worth their time in the beginning, so that sorta gets rid of the fear part. not that im "SOOO the shit" or anything like that. but a confidence that i know i am a nice guy and treat women in the right way. to truly have this confidence you actually do need to know how to be an all around gentleman. the second thing i believe is that i am comfortable with my looks, so when giving the look im not worrying if she'll find me unattractive and if she does then you get the message and just stop there. i dont run into this problem that often at all but you need to understand that this happens to every guy in his life more than once, so dont fear the rejection when trying to go about giving this look. god lol im getting frustrated that im not able to explain in words this look or moment without doing it injustice. but it truly is a fascinating thing and i love it. its like this sorta hot feeling but im in a mature adult way, not in a raunchy way. its also a respectable feeling and classy too almost. so many way to describe, but honestly i think notthe7 and cherrylips are able to describe it very accurately and much more clearer than am...and in much less words. i feel like i could write about this look thing for ever and never get it all out.
all i can say it is awesome/cool/fun...yet again not enough ways to describe it. haha. i love how this is a real thing and is true. just a smallish kinda thing in life that just makes life that much more enjoyable and is/can be beneficial too in even building relationships just because it could start that first notice of one another that leds to something greater, and also if done right and you understand it, it can even be used to have a one-time incredibly passionate night. and not like a slimy one night stand, but it feels almost rather classy in a way and can led to a wonderful night to remember. this initial look is so crucial. i dont really use it for this one night stand purpose, cause its just not what im really trying to get out of it most of the time. but on occassion it can be right. ok ima stop here...i feel like im just rambling on and no one will end up reading this anyway, but i even enjoyed trying to explain this whole thing. its that great.
