Seeing a buddy’s dick

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I grew up showering with teammates and remember my dad telling me early on that guys should be comfortable seeing each other naked because it’s just part of life. It’s weird to me when a guy makes a big deal out of it and acts offended, but I can respect their insecurity and try to limit what they see of me.
 

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Dad said son
I grew up showering with teammates and remember my dad telling me early on that guys should be comfortable seeing each other naked because it’s just part of life. It’s weird to me when a guy makes a big deal out of it and acts offended, but I can respect their insecurity and try to limit what they see of me.
Dad said son men have all the same parts nothing to be ashamed of nor embarrassed about it. They will see you naked and you will see them naked.
 
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yeah, when the gym teacher demands that you shower when class is over, you don't have a choice. I can remember the showers were the gang-type where 4-6 nozzles were mounted on a large pole in the shower room. There may have been 4 or 5 of these set-ups so 20 or more guys could be in the shower at the same time. Some guys were so uncomfortable showering together that they wore a Speedo in the shower. it wasn't too long until everybody was just naked getting showered and nobody seemed to make a big deal out of it. I don't recall anyone being heckled, shamed, or any such stuff for the "equipment" they had.
 

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I grew up showering with teammates and remember my dad telling me early on that guys should be comfortable seeing each other naked because it’s just part of life. It’s weird to me when a guy makes a big deal out of it and acts offended, but I can respect their insecurity and try to limit what they see of me.
Absolutely the same for me. Showering with teammates and my dad telling mě we are all men so we got dick.....
 

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Me personally I don't care about being seen or seeing someone else (I mean clearly I have no issue since I have photos on here just for the ego boost, let's be real). We're all men and have the same basic parts. I would say most guys of my generation and younger are uncomfortable about it because we didn't grow up with communal nudity in school like the older guys did and add to that the easy access to porn affecting our insecurities about size and such, so it comes down to each guy's individual upbringing with their dad or their own developed comfort level. To each their own.
 

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No problem, especially with a close friend. Great bonding experience. Nearly all of my close male friends have seen me nude at some point or another... at the gym, or at a hotel when traveling, staying the night at each other's houses.

If you haven't seen each other naked, how good of friends are you really?
 

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Dad said son

Dad said son men have all the same parts nothing to be ashamed of nor embarrassed about it. They will see you naked and you will see them naked.
Absolutely the same for me. Showering with teammates and my dad telling mě we are all men so we got dick.....

Right. Mine even created opportunities for us to use the pool locker room and get changed together. I remember trying to make him proud by not doing the towel dance but still turning away because my pubes were shaved and I didn’t realize his generation of men also trimmed their pubes, so I felt self conscious.

I wish m he had told me then that I needed to learn to be comfortable around him and men of any age.