Seeing a penis for the 1st time? Is it weird?

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(I'm assuming Crissy's account here DID happen! In the past I have written similar long posts only to read later that the original poster was writing fiction! :mad: But I've read many of Crissy's other posts here and I'm willing to accept her account here as factual when I read it in the wee AM hours earlier today. And, she has always seemed to be a respectful member of our community)

Well Crissy, I've got to acknowledge your "confession" to us is one of the most interesting threads I've seen here in a very long time. And I go back here over six years. I've wrestled overnight whether to even write my $.02 worth. --But here goes.

Many of us are simply aghast. We're shocked and in awe, Crissy, of just what you did! :eek: Many of us guys are asking ourselves, what would WE do had you had asked us? (We'd be flattered. Oh yeah!) But WOULD we do it? -----Would I do it?
No. I wouldn't. And-- I probably wouldn't report you to the store manager. But I sure would like to take you aside and talk to you..."level" with you and get down to the motive of why you would dare come upon a stranger with such a request. THAT'S the kind of man I am. Older, more seasoned, and wiser from life. (PLEASE don't take this as boastful, Crissy)

I'm not going to condemn you, nor will I condone what you've done.
In your life, yes, it was a "milestone" to be sure. --Most certainly it was.

My reaction to your account here is one of concern....only because of the fact that perhaps, just perhaps this forum and other internet opportunities helped drive you to decide upon your daring stunt with this total stranger. You were fortunate. I'm not an alarmist, but Crissy? You put yourself in a VERY vulnerable situation when you saw this man. You temporarily lost all consciuosness too, of this vulnerability. I shudder to think a young girl like you could have easily been taken advantage of...horribly so....later on. Perhaps in the parking lot. Or, maybe even later. Yes, I'm speaking of abduction, rape, etc.. And yes--there is the matter of the possibility that you were both caught on tape via a store security camera! Personally, I would be a bit ansy for a few days if I were in your shoes. But I'm older. --And my thoughts here you will likely dismiss.

Honestly, from my own background too, of never having had an opportunity during adolescence to discuss or learn about sex in a healthy way, I can relate totally to your curiosities. Again though, this forum and the others you likely (?) frequent, have influenced your emotions, your psyche, and your hormones. I can't help but be somewhat frightened for you, honestly.
Not from this one incident Crissy. But for future endeavors as you become more sexually active. Will those encounters be more healthy emotionally and psychologically?

What you've done in that store...for what it's worth, is really NOT (socially)acceptable behavior...AT ALL. I'm saying this in kindness, here. And I don't want to be flamed for saying it, because others here are surely thinking the same way. I just have the courage to say it. I hope others will too, for your own good, Crissy.

There will be other guys (already in our presence here) who upon reading of this one escapade of yours, will jokingly (or seriously) offer you your next chance to see a penis....theirs.

But I hope when you DO delve further into learning first hand about penises though, that you will do so with a better, more rational plan, a grounded plan that won't hurt you or mess up "healty sex" for you later on. If you don't have the emotional (even SPIRITUAL!) aspect of a sexual encounter Crissy, you'll be missing a wonderful part of human life.

And Crissy? May your next penis "viewing" take place in an environment of deep self worth for yourself (without any shame, disgrace or risk of rejection from society for your sexual activity).

You're deserving of genuine love, adoration, and a meaningful relationship from that next man who will offer his penis. I hope for your sake, even his, that "encountering a penis for the SECOND time" will occur for more appropriate reasons than gratifying a temporary moment of flashing curiosity.

You may be the kind of young woman who likely though, may have to learn this later on in life, Crissy. The comments from others here and elsewhere on the web may have sooo conditioned you to just dismiss logic and wisdom. But, it's not my own logic, Crissy. --It's common sense.

Your first time seeing a penis was really nothing more than a cheap thrill-- lacking any REAL meaning behind it. You've missed the boat emotionally from what this experience COULD have been for you under more ideal conditions.

Ohhh, but I sincerely want you to have much better the next time.:smile:
 

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I also have concerns about you crissy, the world is a dog eat dog place and people take advantage of the vulnerable and I feel that you're vulnerable and in a place where the bigger and wiser dogs might take advantage of you. The majority of people on this site are older and more worldly than you and a lot of people don't have that much compunction about manipulating a younger woman who is clearly full of horn. That you would ask a stranger to show you his cock shows a lack of judgement that could in other circumstances have landed you in deep shit. It's nice to be trusting, nice to be open, but you have to take care of yourself.
 

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I'm more dumbfounded at the guy. You're 19. That's cutting it close and I'm sure you didn't tell him your age. How would he not know you were a minor?

Someone comes around the corner and there goes his life.
 

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He smiled and took me to an isle where it was empty and he unzipped his pants. He had a really nice penis it was wide than long
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Is that weird?
Depends on what aisle it was. Greeting cards, pet food, bakery, deli, or right next to the lobster tank ... that would be weird. In the Fruits & Nuts aisle, it'd probably fit in just fine.
 

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Libraries are good, too. The Dewey decimal system gets some people excited. (Much more than the Library of Congress system. That figures.)

You can even tell your friends about what you found over in the fiction section.
 

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Libraries are good, too. The Dewey decimal system gets some people excited. (Much more than the Library of Congress system. That figures.)

You can even tell your friends about what you found over in the fiction section.

It must be Friday, seeing that you even considered responding to this thread, Big Dirg.
 

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Thank you Spoiled Princess, benderten2001 and others for saying what I wanted to in a far more level headed and eloquent fashion.

My observations and encounters with the OP in chat have often been less than pleasant. IMO she has an annoying tendency towards childish, yet overtly sexual & scataological chat which I found neither sexy nor amusing. But when I read this post it never occurred to me she wasn't telling the truth. It just sounded like the kind of thing she would do . . . and that scared the hell out of me. I immediately morphed into my mother and all I could think is, she could have ended up dead in a ditch!

What a tragedy it would have been to lose such a young soul so needlessly. :frown1: I hope that in the future she exercises both prudence and caution.
 

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I think it's a great idea! Well done, Crissy Snow, on having the gumption to ask a total stranger to show you his dick. And I think that a grocery store was a perfect place to do it. (Safe, you know? He's not going to be able to grab you and start groping.)

And a a total stranger was a good idea -- safe, safe, safe. (It's not going to circle back and get you, and you aren't forced to continue anything)

So way to go, Crissy Snow -- you did good!
 

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My observations in the chat room have been exactly the same nj, so much so that I've often wondered if crissy is in fact much younger than she says so, like most people I use the net for adult conversation and I don't really need to be hearing someone allegedly an adult randomly saying things like 'dudu', in the room. Whatever age crissy is she has to realise that the world isn't full of rainbows and puppy dogs and that men and women can sometimes purposely and needlessly hurt other people, and that part of growing up is to learn to use common sense not to place ourselves in situations where one is in danger.
I edited this cos I just saw hotmilf's comments, and while I realise that of course they were part facetious we have to remember crissy comes back to this thread and what she did was stupid, it wasn't safe, there was no guarantee that this guy who would show his cock to some stranger (who as it's been pointed out is only just over the age of consent) wasn't an absolute nutcase who would follow her from the shop until he reached somewhere lonely enough to grab her.
 
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My observations in the chat room have been exactly the same nj, so much so that I've often wondered if crissy is in fact much younger than she says so, like most people I use the net for adult conversation and I don't really need to be hearing someone allegedly an adult randomly saying things like 'dudu', in the room. Whatever age crissy is she has to realise that the world isn't full of rainbows and puppy dogs and that men and women can sometimes purposely and needlessly hurt other people, and that part of growing up is to learn to use common sense not to place ourselves in situations where one is in danger.
I edited this cos I just saw hotmilf's comments, and while I realise that of course they were part facetious we have to remember crissy comes back to this thread and what she did was stupid, it wasn't safe, there was no guarantee that this guy who would show his cock to some stranger (who as it's been pointed out is only just over the age of consent) wasn't an absolute nutcase who would follow her from the shop until he reached somewhere lonely enough to grab her.


You wouldn't believe it but I am turning 20 soon. I just had to do it I couldn't hold out for some lucky guy to sweep me off my feet so I can see his penis. But you are right what I did was stupid but I didn't think it would be that weird. Hmmm now I feel bad.
 

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I think it's a great idea! Well done, Crissy Snow, on having the gumption to ask a total stranger to show you his dick. And I think that a grocery store was a perfect place to do it. (Safe, you know? He's not going to be able to grab you and start groping.)
And a a total stranger was a good idea -- safe, safe, safe. (It's not going to circle back and get you, and you aren't forced to continue anything)

So way to go, Crissy Snow -- you did good!
Please God tell me that was sarcasm and that you weren't encouraging this child to do that again. :eek:

But you are right what I did was stupid but I didn't think it would be that weird. Hmmm now I feel bad.
Good! Remember that bad feeling the next time you get the urge to ask a complete stranger to show you their genitalia in public. :mad: