seeing a unattractive women ok?

I may see a unattractive women sense single women are hard to find.

 

How about changing the attitude first? How about looking for a woman whom you like for her personality, chemistry with you, brains, etc and skip the outside? I know the outside is what attracts people first, but it is not the basis for a relationship unless you just want to have arm candy.

 

lol

 

This sentence is very hard to understand.

 

He just means since instead ofsense.

 

yeah i dunno if i understand it...

 

no idea what you're on about, mate.

 

And with the since, I think he left out pretty... Like pretty single women, or attractive, whatever. Case is, he just forgot to put in a word....

 

Maybe the good single women prefer men with enough brains to write a grammatically correct sentence.

 

I get what you mean OP - or at least I do on one level, but I'm not sure if you mean you are thinking of dating a women you are not attracted to just to have someone to date or if you mean that you are going to date a woman who is not conventionally attractive.

In the latter case - if you want to date someone you think other people will see as unattractive then you need to stop giving a fuck what others think. If you like her, date her.

In the former case then no, don't do it. It is pointless to attempt an intimate relationship with someone you don't want to be intimate with. If you just want sex then that's just mean to her. If you want a special relationship then you are not going to feel that for someone you don't even fancy.

 

If you see an unattractive enough woman you will be so turned off that you won't be able to have sex anyway. You need to be attracted to have sex, genius...

 

Unless you are defective and can't get with anyone else, you should not date an unattractive woman.

Dating a woman who is not physically attractive will only serve to lower your status among peers and within society.

It's just not worth it.

 

OP, whose opinion matters should your date be unattractive? your friends? your family? society? even though you don't know everybody in society?

i think sometimes we should date people who we find attractive, and not what society reckons we should date.

i also reckon that looks are relative. people say it's just a PC platitude, but think about it. some guys love big tits, some love long hair, others dig hair colour, etc. so there is some degree of relativity there, even if most people agree on what is attractive.

 

Even as a "defective" I wouldn't date someone I wasn't attracted to. I've had a few of that type try to jump my bones. I was not amused.

 

beauty is in the eye of the beholder i guess...

 

Wow.

I'm speechless.

 

That's our wally. :tongue:

 

Seeing an unattractive woman can't be helped. But, fucking one... being blind would certainly help...

 

Excuse me, I have to recallibrate my "Shallow-O-Meter" before I can respond to this.

 

I have to admit that I kind of agree. I realize that statement is incredibly shallow, but let's be honest. I know I've discussed the attractiveness of my good friends' girls with my buddies, and it hasn't always been positive.