seeing a unattractive women ok?

[dolfette]

what a funny world you live in...

it's like you never left high school.

 

[Incocknito]

what a funny world you live in...

it's like you never left high school.

More like he never went to school in the first place

 

[dolfette]

where else would someone learn to live by the law of playground politics?

 

[289]

maybe he cant get a date because he can't communicate in comprehensible english.

 

[B_Jordan85]

I may see a unattractive women sense single women are hard to find.

I've tried this. I used to have a thing about me "being the catch" in a relationship. It's fine until you hit the sack with her, then the truth comes out when you can't get it up. Not worth it and it breaks girls' hearts. Don't bother with that, you might as well wait for the right girl.

 

[ScorpioSlut]

Wow.

I'm speechless.

No matter how unattractive the woman is she's still more attractive than Wally's attitude.

 

[D_Geffarde Phartsmeller]

Unless you are defective and can't get with anyone else, you should not date an unattractive woman.

Dating a woman who is not physically attractive will only serve to lower your status among peers and within society.

It's just not worth it.

Hah only a shallow jackass is concerned about there status within society. The rest of us have self-confidence to spare and don't need the validation of strangers.

But that's just me. I'm goddamn amazing

 

[dolfette]

Hah only a shallow jackass is concerned about there status within society. The rest of us have self-confidence to spare and don't need the validation of strangers.

But that's just me. I'm goddamn amazing

*swoon*

 

[ZOS23xy]

Go forth with just yourself and no presumed snobbish needy airs. I did date some pretty attractive women, but I find the subject of "it took me an hour to do my hair" to be extremely lame.

 

[cdog204]

Hah only a shallow jackass is concerned about there status within society. The rest of us have self-confidence to spare and don't need the validation of strangers.

So good looking cocky guys are going to exclusively date unattractive girls then? I don't think so.

Let's get real. Part of the 'fun' of being good looking is getting to play with other good looking people. The bottom line is that so much human behavior is driven from that reptilian brain taking over, especially when it comes to mating. Darwin at work.

 

[petite]

Hah only a shallow jackass is concerned about there status within society. The rest of us have self-confidence to spare and don't need the validation of strangers.

But that's just me. I'm goddamn amazing

Hell yes, you are!

No matter how unattractive the woman is she's still more attractive than Wally's attitude.

Absolutely!

 

[B_quietguy]

Unless you are defective and can't get with anyone else, you should not date an unattractive woman.

Dating a woman who is not physically attractive will only serve to lower your status among peers and within society.

It's just not worth it.

Why would you care whether others think your date is attractive or not?

Ever notice that the people who seemed most fixated on societal status are the kinds of people that mature, socially competent people try to avoid?

 

[wallyj84]

Why would you care whether others think your date is attractive or not?

Ever notice that the people who seemed most fixated on societal status are the kinds of people that mature, socially competent people try to avoid?

If you have a superior mate, that means that you are a superior person. That is why people care. It is part of the human condition.

Those people who are not fixated on societal status are those who already have high status. Since they are of naturally high status, they do not need to concern themselves with maintaning and improving their social status, because that skill comes naturally.

That is all I will say for now. I will write more when I get home.

 

[dolfette]

wally, would it be fair to assume that throughout school you were treated like a worthless piece of shit?
kids are little sods, and there IS a league system at school but it's something people don't usually carry on through their lives.

 

[lopo2000]

beauty is in the eye of the beholder i guess...

I will go with this one...an unattractive women for some people can be attractive to others...i believe there's no such thing as attractiveness...

 

[big_gp35]

Looks aren't everything, but unattractive is kinda harsh. I've used this word towards someone with a bad attitude, outlook on life and others.

I just went through some things in my marriage and trust me, the wife wasn't talking to better looking guys (not that I'm all that). I just wasn't meeting her emotional needs.

Trust me on this, if you meet someone who has everything but the "Model Look" then that is special. I would venture to say that most people settle in relationships with someone who meets most of their needs. Key word, MOST. Rarely will you find that perfect person, however the chances are good that our partners have to settle for our inadequacies whatever those may be as well.

It really is a give and take.

 

[naughty]

Basing a relationship on the physical attractiveness of one's partner is a losing proposition. Regardless of how much one exercises, uses plastic surgery, etc. they are going to age and change. If you are really looking for love and not just arm candy for a season, perhaps you might want to think about the personality and character of who you are pursuing.

I have seen examples where the first wife was stunning, but had poor social skills to the point that she was a detriment to her husband, In contrast, the second wife may not have been quite as physically attractive but brought to the table a wealth of inner qualities that helped the man to become the best person he could be.

HUngshyguy, what are you bringing to the table? There seems to be a lot of "I'm ok, but you better be damn near perfect" going on these days and it is a trainwreck waiting to happen.

 

[helgaleena]

I don't think hungshyguy is going to reply at all. He probably posted when he was drunk and feeling sorry for himself and wishes he hadn't. Folk have been criticizing his attitude AND his grammar...

But it's amazing what revealing answers have come out from others! The shallow are shallow and the heartless are heartless.

 

[dolfette]

There seems to be a lot of "I'm ok, but you better be damn near perfect" going on these days and it is a trainwreck waiting to happen.

that shit always makes me laugh.
i'm kinda beautiful and i don't expect perfection,
but you get complete munters wanting to bag a model.

 

[big_gp35]

Basing a relationship on the physical attractiveness of one's partner is a losing proposition. Regardless of how much one exercises, uses plastic surgery, etc. they are going to age and change. If you are really looking for love and not just arm candy for a season, perhaps you might want to think about the personality and character of who you are pursuing.

I have seen examples where the first wife was stunning, but had poor social skills to the point that she was a detriment to her husband, In contrast, the second wife may not have been quite as physically attractive but brought to the table a wealth of inner qualities that helped the man to become the best person he could be.

HUngshyguy, what are you bringing to the table? There seems to be a lot of "I'm ok, but you better be damn near perfect" going on these days and it is a trainwreck waiting to happen.

Very Well Said Naughty!!