seeing other guys

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by doug2003, Jun 12, 2004.

  1. doug2003

    doug2003 New Member

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    Th is question is geared more towards guys who are str8. Have you ever seen another guy hard if so in what situation, either through clothes or in the flesh?

    The one guy I saw in the dorm a few times was a freshman from across the hall. On tuesdays and thursdays we had about the same schedule of waking up and showering, and a lot of times he would come into the bathroom still hard and angling upward usually in boxers and mesh shorts. A few times we would be peeing at the same time at the urinals and I could see the real thing. It was pretty cool seeing him holding it and straining to pee thru a boner. Then it would gradually go down while he shaved or brushed his teeth with it kind of bulging out over the sink when he leaned in to the mirror. I think he probably wasn't getting to j/o much with having a roommate because it took a LONG time to go down, and sometimes it was still semi (downward but still bulging out) 5 or 10 min later after he finished shaving.
     
  2. Imported

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    BRMSTN69: Well I'm gay but i have a str8 (and married but his wife is in school out of town) roomate that has a habit of jacking off in front of meand anybody else that happens to be around(he even does it in front of the other other guys in the barricks when he's at the National Gaurd)
     
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    I always say that I am str8 as I could not sleep with / kiss or anything else like giving a guy a b/j or getting involved in anal sex with a guy. But, I used to like other guys at school sucking or jerkin me off. When I saw a hung guy with a hard on bigger than mine I always liked to help him get a hard on and watch him spurt.
    I saw my adopted bro with a 6'' erection when he was 10. He had extraordinary skills, one which was self sucking
     
  4. Pecker

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    doug, what you witnessed was one of those rare fellows who's comfortable with himself and who realizes that natural body processes like morning woodies are no big deal.

    I grew up on a farm with neighboring straight cousins and friends skinnydipping, nude sleepovers, etc. and we got very used to seeing each other in every state of arousal. We were probably all like your college friend - oblivious to our state most of the time - just being natural.
     
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    Yeah, dough2003, your question brings to mind a little situation in the showers/locker room in high school that you might find interesting. After a practice we were in the showers and one guy who has stepped into the adjoining room came to the door and hollared, "hey, dudes, come see what Connie is doing".

    Of course, we did and filed into the room where Connie was sitting in one corner,on the floor jacking off. As we watched several of our dicks got stiff and a few hands even went to them. Some of the guys kept laughing and talking to Connie about his dick, etc., but he continued to jack until he shot his load. Luckily coach didn't make an appearance. A good time was had by all! ;)

    Luke
     
  6. BobLeeSwagger

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    I have seen other guys hard through clothes while living in the college dorms and would sometimes think, "Geez, I don't need to know you had a hard-on right now, but hey, that's biology for you." If guys are living together it's bound to happen at some point.

    I've participated in threesomes where the other guy was naked and hard, obviously. It wasn't much of a distraction, what with me wanting to have sex with her and all.
     
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    I've seen a few guys erect; mostly in the showers or changing room at school or in the gym. Very occasionally I think I might have had a part to play in it -- a big soft penis seems to remind other men of sex whatever their orientation. I imagine a good many of us will have noticed this phenomenon. ;)
     
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    How right you are, MAX!
     
  9. jonb

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    It's perrfectly normal. Actually, in most of the world, only the receptive partner is considered a pervert.
     
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    I'm straight and never have participated or recieved any sort of gay sex, hand-jobs, bjs, etc.

    And the truth is, I am always surprised by people's stories regarding seeing other men's erections, jacking-off, and so forth. I have never seen a man's erection, other than mine, outside of porn. I rarely even see other men flaccid, and am surprised when I do.

    Because it's unusual though, I do remember in detail the times I see other mens' penises. I remember one time when I saw a roomate in college and was shocked at how small he was. Really I think he was probably average, but it's like the topic of the other thread, "feelings on small", it's all relative. On a couple of other occasions, I have seen friends' flaccid penis and have always had the same shock of thinking, "damn I'm pretty big."

    But I truly don't think that it is common for straight guys to see other erect men. Straight guys are just never in this kind of position--flaccid...ya, sometimes, but erect...no freakin' way.

    Hope I'm not killing any fantasies, but just had to say it as one of the underrepresented hung straight guys.
     
  11. jonb

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    You're not killing anyone's fantasies. I've never gotten a blowjob from another man or fucked one either. I was just describing the fallacy of the gay/straight dichotomy: I mean, just because you like steak doesn't mean you don't like potatoes. And then there are the vegetarians and Atkins dieters out there.
     
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    Point well taken.
     
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    When you're 15 or 16, frankly a hands a hand and a mouths a mouth. If you're lucky enough to be popular with smaller guys then I say ' let 'em get on with it' You'll soon learn that girls are out there. For the record, the first time someone went down on me was when I was being j/o in the locker room. Another guy ( it was a boys school ) walked over to us ,knelt down and put my erection in his mouth. One millionth of a second later, I came.
     
  14. BobLeeSwagger

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    I agree. And I think this is a major factor in why so many guys are insecure about penis size: most guys have not seen very many erections up close, except for their own. So they can read in a book that their 6" is average, but they only hard-ons they've ever seen are probably in porn, which isn't an accurate cross-section. (Not to mention camera angles and other methods to exaggerate it.) So a lot of guys only have rumors and inaccuracies to compare to, which only feed into some guys' inadequacies.

    It didn't occur to me until I was in college that I might be bigger than most, when women started telling me it was the biggest they'd seen. Eventually I started to think that maybe they weren't just flattering me and looked it up at the library. Once I learned that I was bigger than more than 90% of the population, I stopped worrying about it.

    On the other hand, I have little personal experience to back this up and I'm only relying on statistical studies. There were stats that showed that Iraq had WMDs too, so who can really be sure?
     
  15. jonb

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    Actually, a poorly-written novel showed that Iraq had WMDs.
     
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    I agree. And I think this is a major factor in why so many guys are insecure about penis size: most guys have not seen very many erections up close, except for their own. [/b][/quote]
    I may be a unique case, but being involved in athletics in high school and college put me in locker rooms and showers with hundreds if not thousands of other guys. Particularly in wrestling and track and field, it was not uncommon for one of the guys to throw one in the locker room or shower. Not a daily occurance, but not rare. When it happened there was serious razzing and hooting and hollering, but not shameful or unnatural either. Don't know, maybe we were just a lot more tolerant (or horny? :lol: ) in public school and state university? It was all cool. :rolleyes: :D B)
     
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    fatcock86: "HAD wmd"
     
  18. BobLeeSwagger

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    Let me restate that:

    "There were stats that showed that Iraq had WMDs in 2003 that could be used against us."

    Sometimes stats can be wrong.
     
  19. jonb

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    And as I said, those stats were taken from bad sources.

    Activist organizations are notorious about this. For example, AIDS advocates tend to list all known AIDS deaths under "people living with AIDS", never mind exactly what the stat "people living with AIDS" implies. Similarly, right-to-lifers list spontaneous abortions (such as from Rh problems) as abortions. And of course, PNAC did so by listing Nigerien uranium and "biological weapons" which turned out to be hydrogen for artillery balloons.

    In all fairness to Bush, hydrogen's a major element of biological weapons. One hydrogen compound in particular is two thirds of the volume of any biological weapon. It also acts as a catalyst in the corrosion of metal, is involved in the formation of acid rain, causes millions of dollars of property damage in the Midwest annually, and has been found in all cancerous tumors. (Can you guess which hydrogen compound I'm talking about here?)
     
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    Strange, isn't it, that a thread about seeing other guys' dicks has turned into a pissing contest?
     
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