Hey LPSG Ladies,
Sorry if this is in the wrong category, not sure where to place it so just want some advice from the girls :smile:, if it needs to be moved sorry about the hassle!
So I've known this girl for a long time, since we were little kids I'd say. More recently we haven't been in touch but it seems that when we do hangout we have a great time! Now in HS I would say I had a crush on her but never really did say anything. She had a boyfriend and still is seeing him today, I think they started dating in like 4-5 years now it seems that they have a great relationship but I'm not sure haha.
Last time I saw her we saw a movie and dinner just us, then hungout at her place after we were talking and she said how she wished she dated more in HS, got me to thinking how I should have said something.
Now when we were in HS she would always flirt with me etc, we were always very playful. Then towards graduation she gave me mixed signals, it was a graduation dinner (family's were here and everything). She sees me then comes up and rubs my ear, I was kind of shocked that she did this in front of family and didnt know why she did it, does ear rubbing mean anything?
I know that these acts probably dont mean anything, but do you guys think I should tell her how I feel? I'm not sure if I still have a crush on her now, but she was in my dream last night! its really weird....I haven't thought about her in ages but the dream really got me thinking. Did i confuse these acts of flirty-ness with just friendship? Even my best friend saw the ear rub had a wide mouth after he saw.... just a weird gesture to someone haha. I dont wanna ruin the friendship that we have, she always tells me that she loves me but probably as a friend. Do you guys think there is any benefit if I told her? Besides getting it off my chest?
Any advice would be really helpful, I would say in HS we were best friends but I'm assuming with school and stuff now shes really busy. I know its probably gonna be just hide it and dont say anything, but would love to hear what the girls have to say.
Thanks LPSG
Sorry if this is in the wrong category, not sure where to place it so just want some advice from the girls :smile:, if it needs to be moved sorry about the hassle!
So I've known this girl for a long time, since we were little kids I'd say. More recently we haven't been in touch but it seems that when we do hangout we have a great time! Now in HS I would say I had a crush on her but never really did say anything. She had a boyfriend and still is seeing him today, I think they started dating in like 4-5 years now it seems that they have a great relationship but I'm not sure haha.
Last time I saw her we saw a movie and dinner just us, then hungout at her place after we were talking and she said how she wished she dated more in HS, got me to thinking how I should have said something.
Now when we were in HS she would always flirt with me etc, we were always very playful. Then towards graduation she gave me mixed signals, it was a graduation dinner (family's were here and everything). She sees me then comes up and rubs my ear, I was kind of shocked that she did this in front of family and didnt know why she did it, does ear rubbing mean anything?
I know that these acts probably dont mean anything, but do you guys think I should tell her how I feel? I'm not sure if I still have a crush on her now, but she was in my dream last night! its really weird....I haven't thought about her in ages but the dream really got me thinking. Did i confuse these acts of flirty-ness with just friendship? Even my best friend saw the ear rub had a wide mouth after he saw.... just a weird gesture to someone haha. I dont wanna ruin the friendship that we have, she always tells me that she loves me but probably as a friend. Do you guys think there is any benefit if I told her? Besides getting it off my chest?
Any advice would be really helpful, I would say in HS we were best friends but I'm assuming with school and stuff now shes really busy. I know its probably gonna be just hide it and dont say anything, but would love to hear what the girls have to say.
Thanks LPSG