Hello...and thank you for reading and in advance for your advice! I'm not a very sexually experienced female. I've had sex before with a man who i would say was "average" length with a good girth. Unfortuanately, he's been the only man I've had sex with....so i'm not exactly "broken in" to say the least. My sexual experience with that man was a bit uncomfortable at first(that was my first time with sexual intercourse) but after a few tries, things worked out great over the course of a year. I've not had sexual intercourse since then, which leaves me about 4years without any exercise down there. My concern is this....my new boyfriend's penis is twice the size if not bigger than the last guy i was with. He has strayed away from being too intimate with me because of this...unknown to me until recently. We have discussed sex and he has let his concern be known. He was always shy about getting too intimate because he didn't want to scare me away from his size. He has had negative reactions to his size in the past....i try to keep him positive about his anatomy, and let him know that, that isn't important to me, that i will go through whatever pain it might bring to be with him. I really like him :wub: large penis or not! I am not afraid nor scared to have sex with him....but I do worry about whether or not it will be a good experience for us both. I am willing to try things in advance...perhaps sizing myself for him with a dildo or something? I have not asked him what he thought of this...but i'm am curious if it would be worth a try, or rather wait and let him brake me in for himself? guys what do you think? I just love this guy so much and want give him a pleasant experience with sex for once! When i think about having sex with him, his size isn't what i'm thinking about....but i realize that maybe i should be more thoughtful of that.... So Ladies....do you have any suggestions about how i can maybe prepare myself for him? I've read a lot about how my vagina will accomodate him, theoretically....but i'm curious about the actuality of it. I've also seemed to find that it's easier for the woman to be on top so she can control how much of the man's penis enters her....what do you all think from experience? i think at first it would be easier for him to enter me missionary style until i get used to him, then experiment from there....? I cannot see having sex with a larger penis any different than with an average or smaller, except for "first entry." Then of course there is the length issue, how far will be too far etc. I guess my main concern is just fitting with him. I do realize that we would need to take it slow and it might take a few times before we are able to have full intercourse..... Suggestions.....anyone?