I've been licking my own dick since age 14 and I'm 41 now. I might have gone 6 months without thinking about it at times, but I always get my flexibility back and do what I love.
Though just about everyone I've asked says "I could do that when I was younger", I've never gotten another guy to do it for me in person. Usually, I start at it and then the other guy will want to suck mine along with me, or I'll suck both our dicks at the same time, or maybe he'll rim me while I blow myself.
Flexibility comes and goes, but if I spend about 30 minutes, I can always get the head into my lips. In the summer of 2005, when I worked at it nearly every night, I got about half way down the shaft of my 7.5 inches. That's when I started to be able to get myself off without my hands by bobbing on the head until I blow a load in my mouth.
The biggest turn-on for me when I'm by myself is guzzling my own piss (and I like it rank and salty). But what I fantasize most about regarding self-sucking, is meeting a man who's cock is so big that he can't help but suck it--because it tickles his chin whenever he slouches with a hard-on. That would be about 15 inches or more, I guess. I dream with a sewing tape in my hand.
But I'll have to just enjoy being the hit of sex parties myself. That's when I casually bend down, or roll back and lick the drips of pre-cum from the head and await reactions of popped-eyes and "Hey, do that again!"
If you really want it, if you love cock, or if you just love having a dick big enough to blow yourself, persistence is the key. Work on it gently, and over time, you'll get it. See
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