Selfish sex = selfish person?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by dongalong, Nov 5, 2008.

  1. dongalong

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    generous lover = generous person?

    Do you find that the way a person behaves during sex is a good indicator of a person's character?
     
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    No, I am totally giving and pleasing in bed. Out of bed I am more about me.
     
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    No. I dated the nicest sweetest guys a while back. He did a nice amount of giving and receiving. After a few dates we jumped into bed and he turned into what seemed to be a crazed dominant auto pilot driver. I don't mind fun wild sex, but there was a void behind his eyes, as if he weren't there, but some soulless raged cyborg fuck-machine.
    Happened a second time. I told him to take it easy, but he just stared through me with a deer in the headlights look.

    There was no third date.
    and my munt was pleased.
     
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