No. I dated the nicest sweetest guys a while back. He did a nice amount of giving and receiving. After a few dates we jumped into bed and he turned into what seemed to be a crazed dominant auto pilot driver. I don't mind fun wild sex, but there was a void behind his eyes, as if he weren't there, but some soulless raged cyborg fuck-machine.
Happened a second time. I told him to take it easy, but he just stared through me with a deer in the headlights look.
There was no third date.
and my munt was pleased.