Selling yourself

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    A friend of mine used to charge people in bars to give him blow jobs. Apparently people were quite willing to pay. This is not something he has made a career of, but I am just wondering if any of you have similar experiences and what you think about it in retrospect? thanks
    John P
     
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    When I was in my early twenties I did a bit of it (escort thing).

    It had "naughtiness appeal" especially knowing how many in my family would feel about it.

    It wasn't "for me". However I have no negative regard for the profession if someone can detach sufficiently.
     
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    I have nothing against anyone who does (on either side of the profession, selling or buying.) Personally, I would not pay for sex, nor would I charge money for it.

    Funny thing about it, though. I'm sure that a lot of those who have paid for it actually have a fairly low opinion of those who take money. The (hidden) flip side of the coin is that the buyer is no better and no worse than the seller. It's a symbiosis that could not exist without both parties.
     
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    That sounds like my friend's experience...he didn't really like doing it. Did you reciprocate? Did you enjoy it?
     
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    Well my situation s a little different, I needed some money so I posed nude for this guy and for some reason i got a boner and he wouldnt quit talking about how big it was and shit, so he wanted to suck it so i let him suck it for some extra cash. I did it one more time but this time I jerked it all over his face. I dont ever want to go back to that nasty guy again, I just really needed the money so I did it but ugh, perhaps if the guy was hot that would be another story. Regardless it was a blowjob and I got paid for it....cant get better than that.............so I guess that was my lil story about cockworship/selling myself.
     
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    I never went into a hook up with any notion of getting money out of it. To me the hook up was the point. However, there was a VP of REI that I hooked up with and at the end he gave me $200.00

    Thus started and ended my career as an escort. :smile:
     
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    Not that I have provided a service for cash, so I am not coming from 'having done ' and maybe this is the opinion of the uninformed.
    To me lettting someone suck your dick for money doesnt equate with "selling yourself" cause I think it was just a commercial non-emotional exchange of goods and services.
    You had the dick and needed cash someone wanted it and was prepared to pay. It was situational and non-emotional. You wouldnt have agreed if he didnt pay but he did so sorry I dont see either as the bad guy. The fact that he was hot or not to me wouldnt enter into it.
    You got paid and got off. He paid and got a load. Even Steven!
    Is he the bad guy? No dont think so............
    When you didnt need cash you werent interested and to me that's fine and the end but no need to paint the guy as so bad.
     
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    Um, for a very small window of time, I was involved in a few "incidences". There's a older (spring 2006) thread about this somewhere.
     
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    I was reading through the very same thread last night with my own comparable contributions in mind as well. :rolleyes:
     
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    Yeah, I still need to drop by your street corner. :tongue:
     
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    You Boys are out of business now... best to stay clean, and leave the Buying and selling to others. Alex lives on an island now.. He has no corner.:biggrin1:
     
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    I don't get it. What else could "selling yourself" mean?
     
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    Well, that's not what he told me, but since you're his official spokesman... :rolleyes:
     
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    "selling yourself" could refer to a matter of principle as in what you stand for has a price and to me means your character. What you stand for can be swayed by the dollar so highest bidder gets your support.
     
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    HEy alex8, can you tell me where that earlier thread is? maybe copy the link?
     
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    I happened into such a situation quite by accident. I was in a crowd of guys(almost everyone talking about sex). All these guys pretty much knew of my size. My conversation, however, was directed at a particular guy...I was telling him my weight, which at the time was 180 lbs. Another guy overheard and chimed in with "I'd pay that". At first, I didn't know what he was talking about and since I wasn't standing around naked, I don't know if I would've ever figured it out. I said that I was talking about my weight, but, ultimately, he told me what he was talking about. I met him at his house later for a blow job and left with $180.

    And you know what? I'd do it for a living if I thought I could get away with it.
     
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    I've touched on this in the past but yes, I spent a little time as a whore.
     
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