Congrats on 12 years my friend. Yes one of the most difficult things(for me) to do was take a personal inventory. I saw many things about myself i didn't like. I had my work cut out for me. It was not easy. I did not like myself as a person. Today almost 20 years later i've learned to love myself. The one thing that saved me was the so called divine cop out. Realizing i had no control over certain things i would leave it in Gods hands. I am of the opinion that our lives are already mapped out and it's up to us to travel the road he has planned. Be it life or death. So as a person, i am still a work in progress even today. I must also add my life is simply wonderful. I couldn't be in a better space.Later this month, God willing, I'll have 12 years clean & sober through working the AA program. I love the Serenity Prayer.
It took me a while to learn that the stuff I can change is MYSELF. The stuff I can't change is all the other people and situations outside myself that I can't force to change.
However, the wise person's path is that by changing ourselves, we cause change in our environment including those people and situations that trouble us.
Later this month, God willing, I'll have 12 years clean & sober through working the AA program. I love the Serenity Prayer.
It took me a while to learn that the stuff I can change is MYSELF. The stuff I can't change is all the other people and situations outside myself that I can't force to change.
However, the wise person's path is that by changing ourselves, we cause change in our environment including those people and situations that trouble us.
Later this month, God willing, I'll have 12 years clean & sober through working the AA program. I love the Serenity Prayer.
It took me a while to learn that the stuff I can change is MYSELF. The stuff I can't change is all the other people and situations outside myself that I can't force to change.
However, the wise person's path is that by changing ourselves, we cause change in our environment including those people and situations that trouble us.
Later this month, God willing, I'll have 12 years clean & sober through working the AA program. I love the Serenity Prayer.
It took me a while to learn that the stuff I can change is MYSELF. The stuff I can't change is all the other people and situations outside myself that I can't force to change.
However, the wise person's path is that by changing ourselves, we cause change in our environment including those people and situations that trouble us.
Wow! Congratulations!
I wish I can change my sexuality like this too (No, I don't hate homosexuality, just it's easier if I am what my society wants me to be).
Congrats on 12 years my friend. Yes one of the most difficult things(for me) to do was take a personal inventory. I saw many things about myself i didn't like. I had my work cut out for me. It was not easy. I did not like myself as a person. Today almost 20 years later i've learned to love myself. The one thing that saved me was the so called divine cop out. Realizing i had no control over certain things i would leave it in Gods hands. I am of the opinion that our lives are already mapped out and it's up to us to travel the road he has planned. Be it life or death. So as a person, i am still a work in progress even today. I must also add my life is simply wonderful. I couldn't be in a better space.